Your Ideal partner in Bed

[vickydada1234]

Hi All,
          The biggest reason why we cheat on our partner or even visit sites like this is bcoz there is still something missing in our sex life. I guess it would be nice to express your dreams about an ideal partner on an anonymous site like this, and hopefully gain some insight into what others(both male and female) think on the subject. Before you reply, please close your eyes and think about your ideal sex partner for a moment. Then start typing. If we get to know each other's perspectives and desires, may be we can bridge the gap between what we are and what we can become, in the bedroom, for our sake and our partner's sake. Please only express your true desires.
 I'll start by mentioning some of mine. I'll keep adding to it as and when i remember.
First and foremost, he should be clean and hygienic. Body odor, especially bad breath and unclean genitals is a mood killer.
He should be tall and physically fit with lots of stamina.
Should be ready to mix things up and experiment, with my consent.
He should love foreplay.
Calling bad words or slapping during sex is understandable but shouldn't do it outside, especially in front of friends.
Lastly, he should be confident and strong both mentally and physically, someone who owns me in every possible way.

Well, a good thread. Though, it seems dead.

Really surprising that Bhavana and many other females think that easier it is for guys. Like we can get sex on demand. Can we trust anyone just like that? All guys are not the same. There are many guys who get deceived and cheated with money by call girls who trap and later blackmail/bully.

Guys can be literally lynched and fired from job in a day if any false allegation is levelled against them. It just takes 1 min to type a tweet alleging the guy misbehaved. Why would a guy trust such a female? Guys have to risk and openly express their desire for the woman. The woman would remain silent or give subtle hints only. So, the guy is always risking his reputation and pain/fear of rejection. 

Yes, that's to be a man- to risk, to face the fear. But to call it - "You don't know how easy it is to be a guy"? is to add salt to the wound. I think women enjoy equally or more. In fact, I have come to believe- it's about personalities. All guys are not the same. All women are not the same. There are really good hearted ppl across both genders. We are in search of those ppl only added with a zest for harmless mutual fun and sharing.

Thanks,
Vicky