Adultery My Loving Hotwife Meena

[Salir]

.......A few thoughts I would like to get off my chest include that with each new chapter I have developed a certain 
dislike for the character of Tahir, he is degenerating into a manipulative, pushy con man in my eyes....

......Blah blah blah ...
I consider this behaviour to be cheeky and macho.
What does he think he's doing? Should Meena get out of the marital bed, where she can still feel the
warmth and scent of her husband Nadir on her, and climb into his bed with her legs spread?
These are the same tricks that have been used for centuries and are the cornerstones of the culture of
manipulation.

Tahir uses them very well and is successful, because Meena seems dazzled and loses herself over the
time she spends with him...

** Meena looked a bit confused and then she said, “Oh… Sorry, I was very tired, and overslept, I am so sorry,” **

I do not understand why the apology? 
For what and why? You were or are not his property or his escort girl.

In the end, he was the guest, just like Farzan, so he should behave like a guest, decently and without
‘demands’, just like Farzan.
But here we see the difference between an educated and cultivated man of the world like Farzan and 
the coarse, possessive Tahir.

He (er raspelt viel Süßholz!) ‘grates too much sweet wood’, which does not mean anything good ... turbulent
times await our dear Nadir and Meena ...


Good luck und much success

Lollobionda

A person is like a fruit -metaphorically understood-, composed of outer skin and the core , Soft shell, but hard core or vice vicera: hard shell and soft core,

I know Tahir now for years (about 12 or 13 years).

I understand your disappointment about his character and behaviour in relation to Meena, but he is one of few people that I trust! He has aan inner, deep-seated quality that no one can change, according to what I know about him, a quality that is very, very rare to come across these days: HE IS 100% TRUSTWORTHY as a friend, on top of that he has a very soft heart and he is very loyal to his surrounding people and friends... He is sociable and friendly to others; even understanding,
He seems stubborn and dismissive; but is very sensitive and generally can be compassionate.
Yes, he is not prepared to change his high principles, convictions and (rarely pre-) judgments by even a millimetre. But deep in his psyche, he is insecure and tries to cover up his inner insecurity with intolerance and so-called know-it-all attitudes. That’s why people find him unpleasant…

Of the people we have met over the years - not only in relation to the subject of this narrate here, but in general - he is the most trustworthy and generous of all. For me personally, he is several classes above Mansour and the like. 
His greatest advantage over others is that he is honest and is one inside and out. 
He has a hard shell, but soft core…
 
Regarding the matter of his expectation in the last chapter, as to why Meena did not go to him in the morning, it must be said (Meena confirms this, perhaps it was also written about in the chapter briefly), Meena had promised to go to him, and he is one of those who takes promises seriously and if someone does not keep his promises, then he or she has to pay for it, quite simply and (for him) logically.

His behaviour and what he says and demands (even if he seems dominating and arrogant) is rather ironic and acting, in relation to and under the influence of circumstances and the topic at hand at the moment, here an old, big, strong farmer against a delicate, pretty and vulnerable young woman! Even after the second meeting with him (Jalal's farewell party) Meena saw him like that and her assessment was correct!

And because of these all, we have still a "close and friendly" contact to him. I like him very much, Meena too!!!



Have a nice time,
Salir/Nadir

[Lollobionda]

A person is like a fruit -metaphorically understood-, composed of outer skin and the core , Soft shell, but hard core or vice vicera: hard shell and soft core,

I know Tahir now for years (about 12 or 13 years).

I understand your disappointment about his character and behaviour in relation to Meena, but he is one of few people that I trust! He has aan inner, deep-seated quality that no one can change, according to what I know about him, a quality that is very, very rare to come across these days: HE IS 100% TRUSTWORTHY as a friend, on top of that he has a very soft heart and he is very loyal to his surrounding people and friends... He is sociable and friendly to others; even understanding,
He seems stubborn and dismissive; but is very sensitive and generally can be compassionate.
Yes, he is not prepared to change his high principles, convictions and (rarely pre-) judgments by even a millimetre. But deep in his psyche, he is insecure and tries to cover up his inner insecurity with intolerance and so-called know-it-all attitudes. That’s why people find him unpleasant…

Of the people we have met over the years - not only in relation to the subject of this narrate here, but in general - he is the most trustworthy and generous of all. For me personally, he is several classes above Mansour and the like. 
His greatest advantage over others is that he is honest and is one inside and out. 
He has a hard shell, but soft core…
 
Regarding the matter of his expectation in the last chapter, as to why Meena did not go to him in the morning, it must be said (Meena confirms this, perhaps it was also written about in the chapter briefly), Meena had promised to go to him, and he is one of those who takes promises seriously and if someone does not keep his promises, then he or she has to pay for it, quite simply and (for him) logically.

His behaviour and what he says and demands (even if he seems dominating and arrogant) is rather ironic and acting, in relation to and under the influence of circumstances and the topic at hand at the moment, here an old, big, strong farmer against a delicate, pretty and vulnerable young woman! Even after the second meeting with him (Jalal's farewell party) Meena saw him like that and her assessment was correct!

And because of these all, we have still a "close and friendly" contact to him. I like him very much, Meena too!!!



Have a nice time,
Salir/Nadir

Thank you for the clarifying words, dear friend.

The profile I have described in my comments has been imprinted in my mind from the lines 
and explanations I have read about Tahir so far.
I cannot judge what kind of person he really is as I do not know him personally.
You say that he is a very fine and trustworthy guy. I definitely believe that!
But these positive ‘qualities’ are not yet evident in the story.
I have - and I will continue to - reflect what I observe, what I read and what I think. 
I will continue to make up my own mind ... and will try to communicate it in order to, among
other things, initiate a ‘healthy and constructive’ discussion that is good for the story.
I believe that such discussions are good for the story and keep it alive and exciting...


Good luck and much success
Lollobionda

[Salir]

Thank you for the clarifying words, dear friend................

...................The profile I have described in my comments has been imprinted in my mind from the lines 
and explanations I have read about Tahir so far.... and will try to communicate it in order to, among
other things, initiate a ‘healthy and constructive’ discussion that is good for the story.
I believe that such discussions are good for the story and keep it alive and exciting...


Good luck and much success
Lollobionda

you are right my friend, 100 percent... In the narrative, Tahir's personality is only revealed in relation to the current course and the story, and nothing else is possible or necessary for the story course, that was over 13 years ago and we only knew him for a few weeks, a few months at most... We should write it the way we saw and felt back then, how everything went on the surface, and we did it so...Meanwhile I saw other qualities, independent of this narrative and story about sex and the like...

He sacrificed his existence and even his life at least once for us, me and Meena... Which not even my brother would have done for me... It was about finding a document that had been lost and we, from here, from a foreign country, couldn't achieve anything... He personally drove overnight to a very far city in the country, 1200 kilometers away, dealt with government security officer, and system representatives, spent a lot of money and finally got out the document that was very important to us... and all that even though nobody, not me or Meena asked him and expected him to do it, he just heard that we had a problem,... To sacrifice time, energy, money and more important, putting himself in danger is something that even the people closest to you don't dare to approach... That could be Tahir and he did it, not for anything in return but only because, as he simply afterwards said, "that was not important... that's what friends are for..."... these were his words at the time and never mentioned it again...
Tha’s why I am a bit emotional and try to defend him… Apart from that, I appreciate your opinion regarding the current state and course of the story and honestly I find it very nice and I am proud, as I mentioned earlier, that the narration evokes emotions, that speaks for us, the authors, and it shows that we are not bad at what we do...

Liebe Grüße,
Salir

[Salir]

A few thoughts I would like to get off my chest include that with each new chapter I have developed a certain 
dislike for the character of Tahir, he is degenerating into a manipulative, pushy con man in my eyes.

I do not think he is a conman but he is definitely pushy and thinks he deserves her time in abundance and Meena should be his beckon call. Its good that Meena set him right the very first time that she is not comfortable but yet we see she gave in last min that she will make up to him...so we have to see in future how Meena will handle his requests.

Tahir uses them very well .....

Yes his blunt nature and his immaturity is shown in latest episode. Maybe he never could get a chance with fine woman like Meena before and this fact that he can now spend time with some one who is miles out of his league could be forcing him to be aggressive and making him frustrated.


~RCF

For me personally, if I were to look at the story from the outside, and in retrospect, Tahir is the most interesting of the male characters
 described here... Why? It seems that Tahir is slowly changing over time and showing himself to be different, a rather disgusting type... 

The simplest and most logical explanation would be that he differentiates between times of pure friendship and the moments when he is considered as a male sexual partner for a woman ... 

He will adapt to his role like an actor... He is incredibly clever, he recognized Meena's inclinations and erotic/sensual desires very quickly and soon ("I know what you like girl...", "I know what you want girl... now I know your hot body and its desires, exactly," 

He is the only one who understood the game straight away and adapted... hard shell, soft inside... 

It seems that I, as the narrator, have failed to convey this reality so far in the course of the story, but since I am in the phase of the events where we are, we, I and Meena, have not yet understood and noticed it (in this phase, yet), so I could not go out of course and explain it... But now, after reading comments, I don't want to develop too many negative feelings and emotions towards him, because I personally like him a lot and find him suitable. Perhaps there comes still a time for our new author to bring this to maturity and surface...

Enjoy,
Salir/Nadir

[RCF]

For me personally, if I were to look at the story from the outside, and in retrospect, Tahir is the most interesting of the male characters
 described here... Why? It seems that Tahir is slowly changing over time and showing himself to be different, a rather disgusting type... 

The simplest and most logical explanation would be that he differentiates between times of pure friendship and the moments when he is considered as a male sexual partner for a woman ... 

He will adapt to his role like an actor... He is incredibly clever, he recognized Meena's inclinations and erotic/sensual desires very quickly and soon ("I know what you like girl...", "I know what you want girl... now I know your hot body and its desires, exactly," 

He is the only one who understood the game straight away and adapted... hard shell, soft inside... 

It seems that I, as the narrator, have failed to convey this reality so far in the course of the story, but since I am in the phase of the events where we are, we, I and Meena, have not yet understood and noticed it (in this phase, yet), so I could not go out of course and explain it... But now, after reading comments, I don't want to develop too many negative feelings and emotions towards him, because I personally like him a lot and find him suitable. Perhaps there comes still a time for our new author to bring this to maturity and surface...

Enjoy,
Salir/Nadir

I understood that hence my criticism was limited, I felt his aggressiveness but yet felt it was not overwhelming, He is like a wild bull to me, when charged hard to contain when but content he will be as peaceful as a cow.

Only thing I felt his behavior weird way trying to be little too cozy with Meena even though when its clear she was uncomfortable, I did not expect that from him as his own words from earlier contradicted his behavior and hence maybe Lollo was also against him as well. I felt he got little too comfortable with Meena than necessary when he was kissing and licking her neck..She was clearly trying to avoid the touch and situation. 

Maybe he is still in that insatiable state when it comes to Meena as he just had his best times with her and its still frsh in his memory so he couldn't resist her. I some how feel next encounter is going to be too spicy...hope he gets alone time with her with out Farzan in it.

~RCF

[Kamuk Insaan]

Wow, fantastic!!!
By the way, Tahir doesn’t seem like someone who is easily satiated.
let’s see if meena truly quenches his hunger or just fuels his appetite even more.

[Salir]

Wow, fantastic!!!
By the way, Tahir doesn’t seem like someone who is easily satiated.
let’s see if meena truly quenches his hunger or just fuels his appetite even more.

 We'll see...

[Salir]

I understood that hence my criticism was limited, ......   hence maybe Lollo was also against him as well. I felt he got little too comfortable with Meena than necessary when he was kissing and licking her neck..She was clearly trying to avoid the touch and situation. 

Maybe he is still in that insatiable state when it comes to Meena as he just had his best times with her and its still frsh in his memory so he couldn't resist her. I some how feel next encounter is going to be too spicy...hope he gets alone time with her with out Farzan in it.

~RCF

Our old friend, Lolo (old not by his age but in relation to the time that we know each other!) has a special grace and mercy about us... 
I understand his position... 
Especially every time when he feels some aggressiveness, verbal or perhaps more, towards my Meena, then he reacts and I find this very nice from him, and I thank him and then I try to explain the matter as explainable as possible... 

For us, all of this is a part of the past, and when I (or Meena) speak and narrate here about this past, it's always with a certain distance, but for Lolo (and also for you or anyone who is carefully interested in us and our story), it's new, it occurs now and it's clear that emotions are coming up...

As always thank you for your precise comment...


Best wishes,
Nadir/Salir

[Salir]

Meena speaking:

My dears, 
I'm travelling until next Wednesday, I'm visiting my sister and family in Switzerland, 
so the continuation will have to wait, maybe I can update the weekend after next, I hope...
But then a longer one, agreed?

Kiss you all,
 M.

[RCF]

Meena speaking:

My dears, 
I'm travelling until next Wednesday, I'm visiting my sister and family in Switzerland, 
so the continuation will have to wait, maybe I can update the weekend after next, I hope...
But then a longer one, agreed?

Kiss you all,
 M.

Yes please update when its convenient for you and we will patiently wait and imagine wild things for you  

~RCF

[Bakchod Londa]

Meena speaking:

My dears, 
I'm travelling until next Wednesday, I'm visiting my sister and family in Switzerland, 
so the continuation will have to wait, maybe I can update the weekend after next, I hope...
But then a longer one, agreed?

Kiss you all,
 M.

Wishing you a great trip! 
No rush at all; we’ll be here waiting for your next update with excitement.

[Lollobionda]

Meena speaking:

My dears, 
I'm travelling until next Wednesday, I'm visiting my sister and family in Switzerland, 
so the continuation will have to wait, maybe I can update the weekend after next, I hope...
But then a longer one, agreed?

Kiss you all,
 M.

It's a good time to visit Switzerland, the whole winter sports circus has moved to Norway (World Ski Championships), 
so visitors have more freedom of movement and do not have to face crowds.

I do not know exactly where you will be in Switzerland, but if you visit Geneva, you should definitely stop at the: 
‘Corde Coffee, Rue du 31 Décembre 32’ 
drink a cup of coffee from the hand of Carlina Rinaldi and enjoy the wonderful ambience.

I wish you a pleasant, stress-free stay and a safe journey!


Liebe Grüße
Lollobionda

[Salir]

It's a good time to visit Switzerland, the whole winter sports circus has moved to Norway (World Ski Championships), 
so visitors have more freedom of movement and do not have to face crowds.

I do not know exactly where you will be in Switzerland, but if you visit Geneva, you should definitely stop at the: 
‘Corde Coffee, Rue du 31 Décembre 32’ 
drink a cup of coffee from the hand of Carlina Rinaldi and enjoy the wonderful ambience.

I wish you a pleasant, stress-free stay and a safe journey!


Liebe Grüße
Lollobionda

Hi Lolo,

Unfortunately, Meena's trip is a surprise trip to Zurich where her younger sister works as a neuroscientist at the university. 
Her mother, who has been living there for months, unfortunately experienced an acute outbreak of her chronic illness. 
Now Meena is accompanied by our son, who has been living in the USA for three years and is a doctor. 
He happened to be visiting us and could accompany Meena. 
Unfortunately, due to my responsibilities, I was unable to do that, and I'm glad he was there because Meena needs emotional 
support at this moment. 

I hope that the mother will soon be well again and then Meena can fly back with peace of mind.

Best wishes,
Salir

[RCF]

Hi Lolo,

Unfortunately, Meena's trip is a surprise trip to Zurich where her younger sister works as a neuroscientist at the university. 
Her mother, who has been living there for months, unfortunately experienced an acute outbreak of her chronic illness. 
Now Meena is accompanied by our son, who has been living in the USA for three years and is a doctor. 
He happened to be visiting us and could accompany Meena. 
Unfortunately, due to my responsibilities, I was unable to do that, and I'm glad he was there because Meena needs emotional 
support at this moment. 

I hope that the mother will soon be well again and then Meena can fly back with peace of mind.

Best wishes,
Salir

OMG, that's unfortunate. Praying for your family and hoping Meena's mother recovers well soon.

~RCF

[Salir]

OMG, that's unfortunate. Praying for your family and hoping Meena's mother recovers well soon.

~RCF

Thank you my friend.

[Lollobionda]

Hi Lolo,

Unfortunately, Meena's trip is a surprise trip to Zurich where her younger sister works as a neuroscientist at the university. 
Her mother, who has been living there for months, unfortunately experienced an acute outbreak of her chronic illness. 
Now Meena is accompanied by our son, who has been living in the USA for three years and is a doctor. 
He happened to be visiting us and could accompany Meena. 
Unfortunately, due to my responsibilities, I was unable to do that, and I'm glad he was there because Meena needs emotional 
support at this moment. 

I hope that the mother will soon be well again and then Meena can fly back with peace of mind.

Best wishes,
Salir

Dear Friend,

my prayers are with Meena's mum, your mother-in-law. I wish her a speedy recovery...


That your son has managed to come here to Europe from overseas and join Meena on this special 
- Women's Day - must be a joy and relief for her at this difficult time.

I take this as an opportunity to congratulate Meena and all the women of the Blue Planet on their
‘Women's Day’...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

[Salir]

Dear Friend,

my prayers are with Meena's mum, your mother-in-law. I wish her a speedy recovery...


That your son has managed to come here to Europe from overseas and join Meena on this special 
- Women's Day - must be a joy and relief for her at this difficult time.

I take this as an opportunity to congratulate Meena and all the women of the Blue Planet on their
‘Women's Day’...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

Thank you my friend,

I spoke to Meena on the phone today, mom is doing better but is still in intensive care.

Our son is flying home today to New Haven, USA. He is 28 and is an assistant doctor in vascular surgery. 
So my specialty too! (Just for your information, he is not our biological son, as you know Meena can't have children. 
He is the son of Meena's uncle Mansour, who you know. His name, Ali (not his real name!), also comes up a few times in the story.
We, actually Meena adopted him back then since he moved in with us at 17, we consider him and feel like our son).

I wish you and all our reader a beautiful beginning of spring

Salir