Mature members only, need your advice to manag my demanding maid

[oldman]

Most of my experience revolves around unmarried maids/girls who are curious about sex and TIPs were not the primary concern

After a long inactive sex life I just got a new maid who gave green signal from day one and me being desperate for sex reacted like a kid.

she is married mature have kids and of course sex is not her primary concern but here I made a mistake

I gave her Rs.100 as TIP the first day she came and the third day she was into my arms for just a quick foreplay nothing much and the 4rth day she demanded my laptop

well the laptop isn't new its a decade old laptop but I guess she is going too fast ideally I should refuse her but I just said "OK I will buy one for you" but she said I need it within a week (and my bad I said OK no problem)

It seems she opened too much mouth without even giving anything yet either I am too stupid or she is so smart

I am not good in dealing with such situations what do you suggest how should I move forward from here without loosing her, remember I already committed that I will buy one for you but do you think I can escape from this situation ?

thanks in advance for replying to my question

[ABCDXYZ]

its a gud deal if she fuks for 100 rs

[Yuvak]

If you handover new laptop next she will demand more. She is for money. I have given nearly ten thousand rupees before she slept with me. But she is very attractive and what I require everything is with her. She continue demanding money from me nearly I have paid 50 k plus and several things to her. When I vacated that place to Secunderabad I have not given money not more than 5 k that too when I have fucked her. Noe I donot know her whereabouts. So be careful about money matters with your maid friend.

[raasug]

 Most of my experience revolves around unmarried maids/girls who are curious about sex and TIPs were not the primary concern

Good ! It is a typical friendship ! Give and take Sex for sex. It is friendship ! No strings attached !
But if it is sex for money (Tip or gift) then it is called a contract ! You honour your committment and she honours her committment ! If you honour your committment only and she is not fulfiling her committmemnt then it is called cheating ! Fortunately you have not come across such situations !

what do you suggest how should I move forward from here without loosing her, remember I already committed that I will buy one for you but do you think I can escape from this situation ?

It appears that she is not feeling any hesitation to ask for a laptop that too one more new one ! In return what is she offering ? Nothing ! It means she has come too close to you ! My suggestion is to keep her at a distance ! You can find another similar female for your sexual needs !

This situation is called "erroneous zone"meaning "You say "YES" when your mind says "NO" ! You are pushed to that zone by that maid. It is called psychological manipulation ! The more you plunge inside, it will be more and more difficult for you to come out of it !

There is no need to honor your the so called "commitment to buy a new Laptop" ! In fact it is not a commitment yet. As of now it is merely an offer ! She has not yet made any counter offer (or commitment) to you ! Even if she makes any counter offer, you have to accept it ! Then she has to fulfill that ! Only then you can fulfill your commitment !

There are books available on this subject "Erroneous zones" You can read any one and understand the concepts and then you will be in a better position to handle such situations !