Your Ideal partner in Bed

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Hi All,
          The biggest reason why we cheat on our partner or even visit sites like this is bcoz there is still something missing in our sex life. I guess it would be nice to express your dreams about an ideal partner on an anonymous site like this, and hopefully gain some insight into what others(both male and female) think on the subject. Before you reply, please close your eyes and think about your ideal sex partner for a moment. Then start typing. If we get to know each other's perspectives and desires, may be we can bridge the gap between what we are and what we can become, in the bedroom, for our sake and our partner's sake. Please only express your true desires.
 I'll start by mentioning some of mine. I'll keep adding to it as and when i remember.
First and foremost, he should be clean and hygienic. Body odor, especially bad breath and unclean genitals is a mood killer.
He should be tall and physically fit with lots of stamina.
Should be ready to mix things up and experiment, with my consent.
He should love foreplay.
Calling bad words or slapping during sex is understandable but shouldn't do it outside, especially in front of friends.
Lastly, he should be confident and strong both mentally and physically, someone who owns me in every possible way.

Why do people cheat:  

1. There are many reasons why both men and woman cheat.  In the case of most men its because of desire for sex and more sex with more than one woman.  some consider it as an achievement in life if they fuck more number of women.  Some people boast about it and some keep quiet.

2. Lack of interest and not ready to experiment with partner in having sex forces the man to have sex with other women.

3.  Lack of communication

4. Lack of love, affection and care


In the case of woman:  

1. For some its desire for more sex with that person whom they consider as ideal or right choice. 

2. For some its also a numbers game of having one more person and feeling thrilled having done so.

3. Not able to express herself or her dark desires completely with husband/ Boy friend due to fear of them being considered as bad and characterless.

4.  For some its poor performance in bed.

5. Lack of emotional connect, love, care and attention.  In search of that they land up in the arms of another man.


Please remember this list is not complete and people might have other reasons too for cheating their partners.