Your Ideal partner in Bed

[Foxykavita]

Hi All,
          The biggest reason why we cheat on our partner or even visit sites like this is bcoz there is still something missing in our sex life. I guess it would be nice to express your dreams about an ideal partner on an anonymous site like this, and hopefully gain some insight into what others(both male and female) think on the subject. Before you reply, please close your eyes and think about your ideal sex partner for a moment. Then start typing. If we get to know each other's perspectives and desires, may be we can bridge the gap between what we are and what we can become, in the bedroom, for our sake and our partner's sake. Please only express your true desires.
 I'll start by mentioning some of mine. I'll keep adding to it as and when i remember.
First and foremost, he should be clean and hygienic. Body odor, especially bad breath and unclean genitals is a mood killer.
He should be tall and physically fit with lots of stamina.
Should be ready to mix things up and experiment, with my consent.
He should love foreplay.
Calling bad words or slapping during sex is understandable but shouldn't do it outside, especially in front of friends.
Lastly, he should be confident and strong both mentally and physically, someone who owns me in every possible way.

This is spot on and I'd like to add a few things. It's entirely impossible to be 100% compatible so sometimes it's okay to perform certain sexual acts for the sake of just your partner's pleasure even if it doesn't give you much pleasure and this applies both ways. Also, shaved and clean genitals and good hygiene goes a long way. Always be honest to each other so you don't have to seek an online platform to speak your weird desires. Try to be as non-judgemental as possible.