Your Ideal partner in Bed

[RocketRaj]

Nice thread and candid discussions - Like this spirit. Well said Rupesh, NIharika and Bhavana.
Let me add a few love bytes into this.
The most essential ingredient in a Human relationship is trust and mutual understanding. Take it to different levels, you have different relationship. The basis is the Man-Woman (well you could also have same sex also) attraction.
The Boy has an attraction to a Woman starting with his Mother right from the umbilical cord. Human culture deifies relationships into different branches motherly, sibling and the rest are Man-Woman by the laws of nature. (Not to get into the incest line here)

Now on this front, the conventional relationship recognition by society is the consummation of marriage. In most cultures, this is the licence to sex. Of course the other duties to man woman like siring and raising progeny with the lofty objective of contributing to the diversity of the gene pool, to providing hands for tilling the land, cooking the rice and fighting the wars. So Sex is life.
I recognise the struggle of Rupesh - most people live in these cases. No palatial bungalows with lavish spaces to enjy the pleasures with the Kama sutra ways and positions (not saying those blessed with that hav ticket to heaven, apparently they have their same woes). And love making is constrained to their 5mins of shaking and huff-puff and then off, to not making noise to let their neighbours or MIL-FIL wake up. And lets the conventional milieu - Guys busy with career office and consumed. Housewife (not to caricature but this is the scene for many) where the Wife having done her first phase of conjugal duties has delivered the offsprings. Now Indian family values spend a lot of time fussing and rearing kids. So off goes wife into this. On the otherhand the working women syndrome - career, events, still family and kids so it sucks off her energies. So apparently they have their diversions to devote their energies, and this eclipses the sex drive. And so it leaves our conventional Husband guys hanging high and dry! (HAH)

Well folks - there are the options- try to bring sex back into Married life. Take breaks, have Kids off on vacation or babysitting Folks And go off with wife on break. So switch off Office and switch on Wife - honeymoons. Try it - and you have to try hard to create the scene. You have to invest in the time. I have tried this and it works Upton a point.
Other option - each try out their scene to get a partner. So this might involve flirting in office or off, neighbourhood chakkar or whatever each Man or Woman can muster. I like this - more spice and variety. Donot have too many preferences, because they come in all sizes and hassles. Just take care never get self or her/ him into trouble. Enjoy till it lasts.
Well - Bhavana - thanks for the candidness - Escorts of either kind come at a price and then sometimes it stinks. These days in that profession there is no good guy/ gal. They are all there to make their money and cant think of but milk their customer. Yes - they should be professional and should not kill their golden hen, but if they were smart enough they would have been thriving in business. So once you get your bang for the buck, then they still want to get more bucks out of you. i am not surprised that happened as you said. Pretty resourceful of you to get out. I have had to help friends off this, and it can get nasty. Never can get too clean, so never went that way but for a high end geisha event (these are safe secure and professional). If you like to get your adventure tryout places like Gleeden or Badoo. Some hunting there but take your precautions.