MFM threesome suggestions

[twinkleskdc]

So my wife agreed for a threesome about a year ago and she chose her best friend of many years for the act. I was okay with that. We discussed with the guy he also agreed but he wanted to spend time with her and wanted to go solo at first without me. I was initially okay but later got a bit jealous that things might go out of hand so i backed out. And we never talked about not me ,my wife or her friend. But the idea refuses to go away and after a year i want to again go ahead with the idea. Please suggest if i should go ahead with it ? With the condition that her friend put? Or should i dictate my terms to him? Or going ahead with him is a bad idea?