20-10-2019, 03:19 PM
slowly Bhavna's reputation increased. many of her colleagues wanted their husbands to interact with Kishor, so one interaction session was organised for husbands.
1) Kishor was sitting at centre. One biker woman’s husband asked him how he feels comfortable
taking surname of his wife. Kishor explained :
Traditionally women have taken their new husband’s name after marriage but unfortunately that
is no longer the default in this modern world. As much as I love my father and proud of having
his name as my surname, I personally would adopt my wife’s name immediately after marriage
as I believe it represents a symbol of marriage.
More importantly it represents your love and devotion towards your wife as she is going to be
your guardian after marriage. When a woman keeps her surname, it ultimately gets lost in the
next generation in many cases, so i would not encourage that.
Once a woman is married she becomes a inseparable part of the husband’s family. can you
imagine your family without your mother? No. Now the question arises why should a woman
leave her dad’s family ? Because a woman is much more flexible than her male counterpart. she
can endure pain and sacrifice for her family and changing her name is absurd, so I take my
wife’s surname..
Some people may say this is a way of treating me as her property but I tend to think It is like
giving a special honor to her to be a part of the family (and create the family too). Here we men
are flexible.
2)Kishor answering about high heels:
I love wearing heels but not all the time, I would wear them along with an elegant looking saree
or a nice comfy skirt. Even though they are not exactly easy on your feet, I dont mind donning a
high heels for occasions such as wedding or a get together or going out for dinner.
Many women’s clothes are designed with heels in mind. The same saree/skirt that looks sharp
with a three inch high heels sandals will look a moderate with a flats.
Sure, heels are uncomfortable, but sometimes you need to suffer for looking good. After all
beauty comes with pain and a bit discomfort. You can’t look good AND be comfortable at the
same time. The benefits of wearing high heels outweigh the pain caused due to them.
I would personally prefer an high heels with max 3 inches height and not any higher. However I
am totally in love with this casual looking but cute little wedge slippers (something like below)
and wouldn’t mind wearing them all day (even while cooking in the kitchen) as they are super
comfy with a soft platform and will cause you less trouble.
3)Kishor answered about clothing and height of woman:
Height matters for a woman! how tall you wish if you were a woman? I prefer an average height
(around 5 feet 4 inches) which will perfectly suit with a 6 feet wife
.
Being average height or less will also allow us to wear different high heels and still look like a
doll when posing with your wife. you don’t want to look too tall also because you want to look
up to your wife literally at least when kissing.
One of the pleasures being a woman’s man wife is possessing a long hair and able to style it in
different ways for different occasion. It is indescribable feeling as a woman to braid a long &
thick hair even though it is high maintenance. Beauty comes at a cost and requires time & effort.
A married man who wears saree has to look great and presentable when his wife comes home in
the evening after long day at work. I personally love a simple Saree with light makeup and a
positive smile will go a long way in setting up a great atmosphere for your wife and the family.
Wearing a Saree and feeling feminine & sensuous is an essential part of womanhood for
househusband and the happiness out of it can’t be described in words.
The main garment that adds a whole new dimension and beauty to the Saree is the blouse that is
worn along with it. A saree blouse comes in different styles and shapes and the one that I like the
most is the wide back open one.
While it requires your hands to be a lot flexible to wear a back open blouse without any
assistance from others, there is a lot of pleasure in struggling to hook the saree blouse from back
side and it requires equal skill & focus as that making pleats. And it is more glamorous than the
backless style which leaves nothing for imagination.
There are endless activities a man does as a wife of his wife, mother and a daughter in law of the
house and crunching it down to few choices is very hard. However in my opinion, Cooking and
feeding your family is the single most activity that defines the essence of a man in every house
and is a very rewarding and fulfilling experience as a home maker.
Even though I don’t eat non-veg, I loved cooking for my wife as I quickly realized the easiest
way to a woman’s heart is via herstomach. Having cooking experience during my male life
definitely helped a lot and I enjoyed cooking every day.
I love my footwear. And they have a never ending choices from flats, thongs, heels, wedges,
stilletos, etc. If you’re looking for an everyday sandal with a little extra height, a wedge sandal
will be your friend. The flat wedged heel will keep you comfortable without looking too chunky,
they also look super cute when paired with a simple skirt.
1) Kishor was sitting at centre. One biker woman’s husband asked him how he feels comfortable
taking surname of his wife. Kishor explained :
Traditionally women have taken their new husband’s name after marriage but unfortunately that
is no longer the default in this modern world. As much as I love my father and proud of having
his name as my surname, I personally would adopt my wife’s name immediately after marriage
as I believe it represents a symbol of marriage.
More importantly it represents your love and devotion towards your wife as she is going to be
your guardian after marriage. When a woman keeps her surname, it ultimately gets lost in the
next generation in many cases, so i would not encourage that.
Once a woman is married she becomes a inseparable part of the husband’s family. can you
imagine your family without your mother? No. Now the question arises why should a woman
leave her dad’s family ? Because a woman is much more flexible than her male counterpart. she
can endure pain and sacrifice for her family and changing her name is absurd, so I take my
wife’s surname..
Some people may say this is a way of treating me as her property but I tend to think It is like
giving a special honor to her to be a part of the family (and create the family too). Here we men
are flexible.
2)Kishor answering about high heels:
I love wearing heels but not all the time, I would wear them along with an elegant looking saree
or a nice comfy skirt. Even though they are not exactly easy on your feet, I dont mind donning a
high heels for occasions such as wedding or a get together or going out for dinner.
Many women’s clothes are designed with heels in mind. The same saree/skirt that looks sharp
with a three inch high heels sandals will look a moderate with a flats.
Sure, heels are uncomfortable, but sometimes you need to suffer for looking good. After all
beauty comes with pain and a bit discomfort. You can’t look good AND be comfortable at the
same time. The benefits of wearing high heels outweigh the pain caused due to them.
I would personally prefer an high heels with max 3 inches height and not any higher. However I
am totally in love with this casual looking but cute little wedge slippers (something like below)
and wouldn’t mind wearing them all day (even while cooking in the kitchen) as they are super
comfy with a soft platform and will cause you less trouble.
3)Kishor answered about clothing and height of woman:
Height matters for a woman! how tall you wish if you were a woman? I prefer an average height
(around 5 feet 4 inches) which will perfectly suit with a 6 feet wife
. Being average height or less will also allow us to wear different high heels and still look like a
doll when posing with your wife. you don’t want to look too tall also because you want to look
up to your wife literally at least when kissing.
One of the pleasures being a woman’s man wife is possessing a long hair and able to style it in
different ways for different occasion. It is indescribable feeling as a woman to braid a long &
thick hair even though it is high maintenance. Beauty comes at a cost and requires time & effort.
A married man who wears saree has to look great and presentable when his wife comes home in
the evening after long day at work. I personally love a simple Saree with light makeup and a
positive smile will go a long way in setting up a great atmosphere for your wife and the family.
Wearing a Saree and feeling feminine & sensuous is an essential part of womanhood for
househusband and the happiness out of it can’t be described in words.
The main garment that adds a whole new dimension and beauty to the Saree is the blouse that is
worn along with it. A saree blouse comes in different styles and shapes and the one that I like the
most is the wide back open one.
While it requires your hands to be a lot flexible to wear a back open blouse without any
assistance from others, there is a lot of pleasure in struggling to hook the saree blouse from back
side and it requires equal skill & focus as that making pleats. And it is more glamorous than the
backless style which leaves nothing for imagination.
There are endless activities a man does as a wife of his wife, mother and a daughter in law of the
house and crunching it down to few choices is very hard. However in my opinion, Cooking and
feeding your family is the single most activity that defines the essence of a man in every house
and is a very rewarding and fulfilling experience as a home maker.
Even though I don’t eat non-veg, I loved cooking for my wife as I quickly realized the easiest
way to a woman’s heart is via herstomach. Having cooking experience during my male life
definitely helped a lot and I enjoyed cooking every day.
I love my footwear. And they have a never ending choices from flats, thongs, heels, wedges,
stilletos, etc. If you’re looking for an everyday sandal with a little extra height, a wedge sandal
will be your friend. The flat wedged heel will keep you comfortable without looking too chunky,
they also look super cute when paired with a simple skirt.
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