07-01-2019, 02:02 PM
Quote:dpdpxx7
But she clearly said that if he can't bear of her having sex with that old guy, he can shift the home.
The right to take that decision still lies with him. She mentioned that at the beginning already.
And he hadn't taken that decision. And he still got a hard on listening all this from her.
So he must face these consequences of his decision to not to shif the house.
So it's all about the choices we made. Whether we like it or not...we have to face the consequences. There is no escape.
And he is facing that.
breville1
Yes, unfortunately he is facing the consequence of his decisions. However, it is his thought process that led to his decisions. Here's my understanding.
First decision was his....to ask his wife to take part in his fantasy, explaining that she too would enjoy as his own sexual performance was so so. Thereafter, she took over.....
When he gets aroused, I don't think it is because he likes humiliation and pain. The writer goes to some length to describe his pain. Also, the writer describes his character as a fairly normal guy, going to work, having kids, family life, sex, etc. So I don't think he is into BDSM/etc. where he psychologically experiences pleasure from emotional and physical pain/humiliation. As I said, pain is pain here.
I still say that his primary reason for getting an erection while his wife talks about various aspects of being with Shahnawaz or Vivek, is because of his original fantasy of seeing her with another man. Again, I suggest that this, by itself, doesn't mean he is a cuckold as it appears to be an extension of a fantasy/role play.
The problem is that having opened Pandora's box (about wanting her to be with another man) he feels he has to continue to support her despite what she is up to. He is standing by his deep love for her and letting her have the pleasure she now wants despite his own internal pain and turmoil. And she is using that to develop her long term strategy with the nearby, daily and convenient Shahnawaz pleasures and the variety offered by Vivek and its gateway to a more promiscuous lifestyle (Vivek and his wife are into swapping, etc.)
Poor man....will he ever get out of this mess?