07-01-2019, 10:39 AM
Quote:breville1
Wow! She is concerned over the long term and makes very good points, especially preserving her marriage. But then so many conditions!!
I read this update with great misgivings. I apologize to the writer for already becoming so deeply involved. Great job!! But please continue regardless of my comments.
He makes essentially only one condition, to trust each other, not to hide anything. This is very powerful.....how do you describe every thought and feeling when engaged in a long term extra marital affair? Will she be able to comply, especially considering her conditions?
Her conditions, for me are already one sided and don't consider his emotions.
They both agree to do this as they will both enjoy. So why shouldn't he have a say in who the lover is? I preferred the tryst with the young boy. Have your fun and leave. That is why I think he should be involved in choosing the lover. Anything long term always has emotional attachments.
And here is the most surprising condition for me....not to ask them to stop the affair immediately because they would be attached with heart intimacy rather than physical intimacy!! I thought hubby just wanted to see his wife fucking with another man, not for her to become another man's wife or to emotionally become attached!!
He already felt upset when she didn't tell him everything about the young boy. How will she stop "over time"? Already means plenty of scope for resentment, hurt, etc. from both sides. Tragedy just waiting to happen.
He already expresses misgivings about Shanawas....doesn't conform to his fantasy but wife assures him he will. Already sounds like she has her own plans regardless.
So it looks like he will be humiliated by them, regardless. It will become hell for him trying to keep to her conditions while she enjoys as she pleases.