Adultery My Friend Wants My Mother

[CoreMadness]

In family life, there is no such thing as a "final word." Sons often make compromises—even on the most difficult matters—to keep family bonds intact; that is simply the reality of life. Those who come from broken families understand all too well what happens when a family falls apart.

In the hope of receiving a mother’s love until the very end of their lives, sons often compromise by yielding to even the unreasonable demands of their mothers. For a son, a mother holds the highest place, and it is precisely this deep emotional bond—or vulnerability—that often leads him to accept her irrational requests.

Several profound psychological and social factors underlie such compromises:

1. The fear of losing a mother’s love: Sons often view a mother’s love and blessings as one of the greatest sources of emotional strength in their lives. Many harbor a fear that by disobeying her or acting against her wishes, they might be deprived of that very love.

2. Misplaced sense of respect and gratitude: Sons often feel a psychological pressure to "repay" the hardships and sacrifices their mothers endured to raise them. Consequently, they may perceive even a mother’s unjust behavior as her "right," leading them to compromise.

3. During illness or crisis: When a son falls ill or faces danger, a mother is the first to step forward. She will exhaust all her resources—everything she possesses—to ensure her son’s recovery or safety, never once pausing to consider her own future.

Ultimately, the blood tie between a mother and her son cannot be severed; one may harbor temporary resentment, but in the end, one must return to the mother.

He will let her go precisely to keep her memories when she was his mother intact.  She is no longer his mother now. 

We can clearly see how she is calculating, cheating her husband. Vinay not only loves his mother, he also loves his father. He needs to save himself and his father too..
No affair will remain in the dark for far too long, there will be a day when his father will find out by himself, it is better to confront it now and be done with....
Vinay lost his mother the moment he made Gautham enter their lives. He has to live with that for rest of his life. Just because he loves his mother wouldn't make him to submit to Gautham like his mother and keep facilitating their affair. He better die than do that...lol