Adultery My Friend Wants My Mother

[CoreMadness]

As per the context of the story, a peaceful, realistic and sensible solution to get out of this crisis without leaving the family bond intact and without any social or emotional upheaval is discussed below. The steps in which Vinay can intelligently and compassionately free his mother Mrs. Madhu from Gautam's influence are as follows:

Dude, you and that WXXX not sure if same account holder(I feel you both are same person just hunch, I apologize if not) but you both are way off in getting the gist of the story...delusional is small word in the way you both write messages here, I am not disrespecting you but the way you both write messages and thoughts here doesn't even come close to the way story has been progressing. 


1. Strategic and psychological steps on Binay's part

Since Vinay does not directly see any change in his mother's behavior, but has caught his mother lying (such as the excuse of a new mobile or Gautam's sudden arrival), he has to choose a strategic path instead of being directly aggressive:
A. Secret monitoring of mobile and communication: Since Vinay knows that the new mobile is actually a means of communication with Gautam, he can track the call list or messages of that phone without his mother's knowledge or tactfully. However, this has to be done very secretly, so that his mother is not alerted.

~ Vinay if he finds out his mother's mobile, seeing the videos and pics alone will break him to an extent that he knows that there is no coming back for his mother. There are all kinds of kinky videos with drugs, anal, facials, whoring, smoking and its like complete different person. He will know there is no point of return for her...anyone who thinks otherwise is not thinking right here....she has gone to a point of no return and its clear from her thoughts. She has guilt over cheating her husband and son but she knows that she has crossed all lines and only thing she has clarity is she cannot leave Gautham, she will feel like she died if she ever left Gautham. That's the extent Gautham has changed her forever. Your strategy to keep an eye on her, monitor calls and all those ideas are silly at this point. 

B. Creating emotional pressure, not directly, after being caught lying: When Mrs. Madhu said yesterday afternoon, "Gautam has come to meet you," Vinay could have kept the situation normal but later talked to his mother privately. He could have reminded his mother, "Mom, you promised not to keep in touch with Gautam anymore. Your decision is very important for my career and the peace of our family." This emotional message would have awakened Mrs. Madhu's inner guilt.

~ Doesn't she know that her going to Gautham would impact her son and his mental state? She knows all this but still chose Gautham over her son and her husband. She is prepared to leave them at one point but thought of giving a chance for double life. If that double life is not going to work then she is prepared to live alone as a whore for Gautham. He is capable to get her a job and keep her as his whore and secretly meet while he is happily married, Madhu is fine with that...Nothing is going to stop her unless there is a big emotional setback for her, only someone's death on her consciousness can jolt her through this fog. Hence I mentioned son dying or killing Gautham as a climax but if that doesn't suit readers or author, he could apt for a different dark ending. Simple statements like son's future won't bring her back. She is not his mother anymore. she knows it, she is only leading double life with extra sugar coated emotion just to keep them away and not focus on her schedule. so she can secretly meet Gautham again and again. 
 
C. Maintaining mother's contact with Padma and Lakshmi: Since Vinay wants his mother to have a relationship with these two ladies, he could have kept his mother busy with social events, shopping or family get-togethers with them. Since Padma and Lakshmi's relationship with Gautam is not deep now, they can play a positive role in moving Mrs. Madhu away from Gautam and returning her to normal social life.

~ You are talking about her state of mind before double life, at that point all these suggestion could have worked. Now she is past that...you are not seeing it. 

2. Mrs. Madhu's way out of Gautam's Rahugras and sex addiction

Mrs. Madhu has basically fallen into Gautam's clever trap and has become a sex addict (Hypersexuality/Sex Addiction). To get out of this, she and Binoy need to take some steps:
A. Digital and physical distance (No Contact Rule): The first condition to get out of the double life is to stay away from stimuli or triggers. Mrs. Madhu has to completely destroy or abandon that secret mobile. Going to Gautam's flat or letting him come to her flat should be strictly stopped.
~ She won't, that's the whole point. There is no going back. She will never agree to Vinay's blackmail now, she will simply say he can go ahead and tell Rajesh, she doesn't care. Remember story is ending in 2-3 chapters why? because there is no point of all these steps anymore. Either she will go to Gautham and leave family or Gautham stops seeing her. Vinay should know now that trying to stop his mother did not work, so he has to stop Gautham. Hence I was saying what he would do to keep Gautham away. 

3. A peaceful and positive ending for the readers of the story

How the equation between Vinay, Mrs. Madhu and Gautam can end for a beautiful and peaceful resolution of the story:
A. Vinay's ultimate discretion: Vinay can call Gautam and talk to him alone. Since Gautam is going to get married soon in a family, Vinay can calmly explain to him that if their relationship is revealed, Gautam's own marriage and social status will also be ruined. Vinay will give Gautam a stern but calm ultimatum to move away from their family.


~ Yes now you are on same page, he can try to stop gautham and that's the only way to end this, Gautham will never leave her for simple threatening messages, something big and nasty needs to jolt him out of his cocky life. 

B. Mrs. Madhu's self-realization: The love and responsibility that exists within the mother for the family will be inspired by Vinay again and again. When the mother sees that her child is bringing her back from this darkness to the light with utmost compassion instead of hating her, the remorse within the mother will force her to give up her double life.

~ Think she already knows, she loves both her husband and son. Love has nothing to do with her state. She will hate her son if he takes Gautham away from her, wait and see. 

C. Return to normal life: Finally, Mrs. Madhu will give up her secret mobile in front of Vinay. Gautam will be busy with his own marriage and will move away forever. Their family bond with Mrs. Madhu, husband Rajesh and son Vinay will be stronger and healthy social relations with Padma and Lakshmi will be maintained. In this way, Vinay can end this dark chapter in his mother's life with his discretion without any unrest or family breakdown.

~ Ending will be much more darker than you can imagine.