15-07-2026, 11:59 PM
(15-07-2026, 11:35 PM)Sunnysunnysunny Wrote: I've come to realize that when you're always available for people, they eventually stop valuing you.yes bro, selfrespect comes first. please don't try it in this site. people will like it when story is moving according to thair liking. some people dosen't have patience. some people want some excellent stories which have content like yours rather than some shitty emotionless sex. some people dosen't like routine type of stories like mom-son stories but they dosen't think like loving a person in different ways, they think like there are lot of stories about mom-son but they dont think like the story between mom-son in this story is different. some people may not be available because some unexpected turns may happen in thair life and they can't give time to this site.
Your time, effort, and consistency become so normal to them that they start taking everything you do for granted.
They begin to think, "Whether we ask or not, he'll give update us every day anyway," and that mindset slowly turns into a lack of respect. that's when appreciation slowly disappears and respect starts to fade.
I've experienced this personally. I spent countless hours giving regular daily updates and putting in genuine effort, expecting nothing more than basic respect in return. Unfortunately, even that became too much for some people to offer.
Because of that, I've decided that I no longer want to entertain or put extra effort into people who don't appreciate or respect what I do. Respect should always be mutual, and if it's missing, there's no point in continuing to give your time and energy.
From now on, I'm choosing to invest my time where it's valued and my efforts where they're respected.
I can continue—I'm just take my time because I've learned that not everyone deserves unlimited access to my time, attention, and effort.
Respect should never be expected as a favor. It should be the minimum anyone receives when they genuinely invest their time and energy.
So, I'm choosing boundaries over being taken for granted, self-respect over people-pleasing, and peace over unnecessary expectations.


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