ARJUN vs ZAHEER

[Anum sheikh]

when you ask for explanation , and he try to hide behind his anger , he is not the right man . 

if you don't find the man standing beside you , when you need him , that's not the right man for you. 

if the man is not honest with you , and he is a coward. then hi is not the right man . 

if he don't share his secret and future plan with you,  he think you are just a girl and should not get involved this kind of manly matter  , and think he is doing these for your good future , (actually he is doing these for his ego). he is not the right man . 

if you cant reach him , when you need to talk to him. he is so busy with his work cant even make some room .  then he is not the right man . 

these are the some  red flags a girl should look  for , when she choose her partner. and our hero got all of them. 

firstly,  when ammu asked about nikkhats rumor, arjun got angry , and left without any explanation. 

then , when ammu was going through marriage pressure , and her father was ill , she need his support for taking decision, she try to reach him , he was not there , but next day he was trying hard for ruined her marriage shamelessly,  without even asking her. 

then he asked for forgiveness , without reveling his true sin. a coward of a hero . I know that the word coward going to raise some eye brow. but this is true . 

then all of a sudden he got busy, and when ammu asked him , he said I am doing this for us . that was not true , you don't need to become college president for a girl who love you so much. arjun doing this for his ego. then all of a sudden ammu come to know that her lover want to join politics.  some may find this very normal , we see this kind of things very often in film.  especially in south film . but its very important to discus with your partner before taking big step like this . no arjun not gonna do that , hi think he is a hero , and everything he is doing going to come out not just fine but with excellent result . and ammu should respect his decision without any question. or if she raise some question , I will kiss her and she gonna melt in my arm. I will suffocate her question with my love.  how romantic!!!!  

and last but not least , no matter how much you get involve in election , you can take a phone call . even person running for  prime minister  can find out five minute , for a phone call . but our arjun cant , because he is ARJUN   

my advise for a girl like ammu is . please run , run as fast as you can , from this man .

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