14-06-2025, 10:32 PM
One day one of the girls online asked “who do you guys say you're talking to when your husband asks who you're messaging all the time?”
And I joked “just tell him you're chatting with the girls from your book club”, and it stuck, we started referring to our group as a book club! It's been a year and we've grown to nearly 250 members across 7 countries! That number may not seem big, but if 250 women were willing to come forward and talk about their unmentionable feelings, think of how many more must be out there!? Feeling insecure, like they're freaks just because they have kinks that might seem unacceptable to some..
And even though it was all virtual (except for Shorna and I.. There were a couple other members who were in our city, and some other cities had a few members as well, none were yet willing to meet in person, which is understandable) and we were obviously very open minded, we realized we still needed to come up with rules to govern what was tolerable for our group…
NO BOYS ALLOWED.. This was a group just for women! Which presented an obstacle since we were exclusively online.. How to verify that a new member was female?? we decided to require new members to “interview” in person, through a video call. Anonymity was paramount for all of us, so blurring or covering their face was fine, but they still needed to show us PROOF that they were female, this usually meant they flashed their coochie! It sounds very invasive, but really it was just one moment, and what lady hasn't sent nudes to someone before?? So they would have a brief conversation with myself, show me her muff, and she was in.
No one underage! This went for members AND their partners. Meaning if a woman talked about wanting to sleep with her son, he needed to be legal age too, we weren't here to help them seduce kids!
Nothing illegal! In addition to the legal age requirement, nothing else that was illegal could be discussed. If a woman says she's turned on by death, that's fine, but if she says she murdered her husband and has been sleeping next to his body, I don't want any part of that! I don't judge anyone for their fetishes but I don't want to be complicit in any crimes!
No judgment! I get it, some of the things we hear members talk about might make us laugh, or roll our eyes, or even cringe, but we need to remember that some of them feel that way about what we have to say as well. So we sort of follow a “if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all” policy.
And Finally.. We don't talk about the Book Club! This was tricky because we wanted to bring in more members that could benefit from the group, but we also didn't want to tell the wrong person who may try to tell the whole world about us. We weren't doing anything illegal, but none of our ladies wanted to be revealed either. So we tried to keep the details to a minimum until new members had been vetted.
And this was the start of our “Book Club”... a place for women with socially objectionable sexual tastes to collaborate with other women with socially objectionable sexual tastes.....
The End...
And I joked “just tell him you're chatting with the girls from your book club”, and it stuck, we started referring to our group as a book club! It's been a year and we've grown to nearly 250 members across 7 countries! That number may not seem big, but if 250 women were willing to come forward and talk about their unmentionable feelings, think of how many more must be out there!? Feeling insecure, like they're freaks just because they have kinks that might seem unacceptable to some..
And even though it was all virtual (except for Shorna and I.. There were a couple other members who were in our city, and some other cities had a few members as well, none were yet willing to meet in person, which is understandable) and we were obviously very open minded, we realized we still needed to come up with rules to govern what was tolerable for our group…
NO BOYS ALLOWED.. This was a group just for women! Which presented an obstacle since we were exclusively online.. How to verify that a new member was female?? we decided to require new members to “interview” in person, through a video call. Anonymity was paramount for all of us, so blurring or covering their face was fine, but they still needed to show us PROOF that they were female, this usually meant they flashed their coochie! It sounds very invasive, but really it was just one moment, and what lady hasn't sent nudes to someone before?? So they would have a brief conversation with myself, show me her muff, and she was in.
No one underage! This went for members AND their partners. Meaning if a woman talked about wanting to sleep with her son, he needed to be legal age too, we weren't here to help them seduce kids!
Nothing illegal! In addition to the legal age requirement, nothing else that was illegal could be discussed. If a woman says she's turned on by death, that's fine, but if she says she murdered her husband and has been sleeping next to his body, I don't want any part of that! I don't judge anyone for their fetishes but I don't want to be complicit in any crimes!
No judgment! I get it, some of the things we hear members talk about might make us laugh, or roll our eyes, or even cringe, but we need to remember that some of them feel that way about what we have to say as well. So we sort of follow a “if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all” policy.
And Finally.. We don't talk about the Book Club! This was tricky because we wanted to bring in more members that could benefit from the group, but we also didn't want to tell the wrong person who may try to tell the whole world about us. We weren't doing anything illegal, but none of our ladies wanted to be revealed either. So we tried to keep the details to a minimum until new members had been vetted.
And this was the start of our “Book Club”... a place for women with socially objectionable sexual tastes to collaborate with other women with socially objectionable sexual tastes.....
The End...
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