Adultery My Loving Hotwife Meena

[Lollobionda]

This time I do not agree with Mitra. 
She may have used this strategy for herself in her marriage or in later relationships. 
But in the end we see that she probably didn't succeed and failed.
Why is she coming up with this advice now and trying to talk Meena into it?
Jealousy is unfounded in most cases and arises from misunderstandings; it destroys many marriages and partnerships. 
An open-minded and educated woman like Mitra should be aware of this!

I see the reason for the current clouded situation in Nadir and Meena's relationship in the fact that they are not
expressing themselves clearly to clear up the existing misunderstandings.
They should sit down together soon and have the long overdue clarifying conversation.
They run the risk of these misunderstandings growing like a snowball - the more it rolls the bigger it become -
their problems become bigger the more time passes.

Unlike RCF, I believe that Jalal and Meena were given time and space from Nadir, even more than enough.
Whether Nadir should look at it from Meena's perspective or not, the fact is that Jalal had serious intentions to
have Meena, both physically and emotionally.
He wanted to tear her away from Nadir!
At the dance and especially in the library in his house and also at the other meetings, she was given more freedom than 
- a married woman can have - and Jalal skilfully exploited this.
He made it clear to her that he wanted her all to himself. Meena would not have resisted and would have gone 
to bed with him 
if he had exerted a little more pressure and got his way (like Mansour in the past).
What husband/partner is so overbearing, no matter how strong their love and how much trust they have in each other?

Nadir is aware of this. It has happened many times in the past and he is branded.
(I am reminded here of the episodes in the lake house when Meena, after being convinced that Nadir had fallen asleep, 
went downstairs to Mansour and had sex with him. Also the next morning, when Nadir was out running, she immediately 
took the opportunity and had sex with Mansour again, until she was interrupted by the phone call).

My summary is:
The coldness and mental distance that prevails during this time is not the result of a lack of trust or jealousy, 
but of Nadir's anger and lack of understanding and his disappointment that Meena allows herself to be dominated
and surrenders to these men almost willy-nilly.
This really became clear once again when Jalal entered her life. This dominance (from Nadir's point of view),
which probably pleases Meena and excites her more, frightens Nadir.
From my point of view, Nadir's fears are unfounded, because in the past Meena had made these fears very clear
to him in a conversation after they had sex.
He had taken and dominated her with the same hardness and sharpness as Mansour had done with her during sex.
She was very hurt, angry and upset and put up with it. For her, it was almost bang, an act far removed from love
and feelings.
In the conversation afterwards, Meena told him that she wanted a gentle, loving, understanding, passionately loving Nadir. 
Nadir she had come to know and love.
Because only with him, her Nadir, does she feel and experience the love, closeness, security, safety and warmth that she needs.

Nadir has to recall the conversation once again and memorise it.
Then he will see the light at the end of the tunnel again ...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda