Romance An Old Debt has to be Paid..by salir

[Lollobionda]

Hello Meena,

as for my opinion on the whole thing (your story), I can emphasise it very briefly in one or two sentences.

Firstly, I am not condemning or criticising your attitude because I am convinced that there is nothing to criticise about it.
Another aspect is that I am not a moraliser and have no intention of acting like one.
I am not called to do that either!

I am not a woman and unfortunately cannot put myself in the shoes of an independent, self-confident and thoroughly
feminine woman. 

I pay my respects to these women ... 

... And believe me, this type of woman has always fascinated me, 
I would never get involved with a woman who, for example, is muzzled, subordinate and says yes and amen 
to everything that comes from her partner/husband.
Neither my late wife nor my current wife was and is like that!

I was and am in favour of ‘all’ decisions and actions that are made TOGETHER in a marriage/partnership and are 
made by mutual agreement.
... And your decisions are CONSENSUAL! 

What's wrong with that?
I do not see anything wrong with that ...

When reading your story, I often try to put myself in Nadir's shoes, to read his thoughts, to sense his dreams and fears. 
I will try to reflect this later in my comments.

Finally, I would like to emphasise once again that I think your decision to stay in the room and not to hide behind Nadir
or to hide behind the door is the right one. 
It was Nadir who put you in this situation and he should (and in the end did) pay the price.
Now he can feel jealousy/pain and pleasure at the same time. 
He can not blame you for enjoying the passionate sex with Jalal at the highest level afterwards. 

And that's exactly what I meant Nadir in my previous comment with ‘EITHER, OR ...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda