Romance An Old Debt has to be Paid..by salir

[Lollobionda]

First of all, I would like to thank you, Meena, for these clarifying and courageous words 
(because not many women and not many men have this courage to set out and commit 
to what they have formulated for themselves as a philosophy of life...).

Thank you for that...

For me personally, love is like water in its properties, which is made up of two different elements, 
with one element burning and the other exploding. In their properties, as found in nature, they 
have nothing in common, but only when they combine in the form of molecules does life arise in 
these two completely different gases.
When they are separated, they retain their properties, because neither is lost in the other.

... And so is perfect love.
It unites two different individuals, of different sexes, and makes of them a unity in which they 
retain their own characters. 

Neither of them is dominated by the other ...

Like water, which sometimes freezes and solidifies into ice or evaporates as a gas, it returns to its 
original state as soon as the circumstances and conditions are right.
... Love is like that too, with its emotions and feelings, its highs and lows, its sharing and renouncing, 
its giving and taking, its respect and understanding ... 
But the ‘shared’ life only arises when two ‘I's’ have become a ‘WE’...

What I have read so far in this story shows me that Meena and Nadir have merged into a ‘WE’ in all areas of life... 
Meena has summed it up in her interpretation.

I am really looking forward to reading how the two of them manage to free themselves from this ‘frozen’ mood so 
that they can enjoy life together to the full again...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda