Romance An Old Debt has to be Paid..by salir

[Lollobionda]

Thank you for your reply. Sorry to drag you to those memories back again. The reason I needed to know is because you could have lost her that day due to your foolishness. Despite knowing you were part of that whole mess you blamed her singularly and left the house. So wanted to make a point that you were incredibly lucky that day. 
I keep saying this in all the stories I have been interested on this forum whether they are fiction or real events..that Love and Lust are two different entities and never should cross lines against each other. If the person who you love can provide the satisfaction and balance the scale then your lust will not be tested for eternity but if fate intertwines and decides that you have 3rd person able to imbalance that scale and provide the passion and lust that is missing then Lust and Love cross each other. I am glad you saw that your wife loved you more than anything and decided to play along and took back control of your life.

~ RCF

I see it differently and argue that it was not Nadir's foolishness at the time that made him seriously
consider divorce, but that he felt deeply violated in his personality and in his role as Meena's husband
'he was not seen as family and left OUT'.

When Meena was blackmailed by her uncle (which he heard the very first night!), Nadir expected her 
to talk to him about the blackmail. Because as a husband, he was/is HER MOST DEAR FAMILY MEMBER.

Since she (to this day, by the way!) did not respond to the blackmail with any clarity, Nadir did NOT feel
like a member of her family.
According to his (general) opinion, both families merge into one with the marriage.
Nadir saw it that Meena (perhaps unconsciously in hindsight) had not seeing him in HER family circle.

I think it was this disastrous step by Meena that Nadir still cannot let go of: 
Not quite being HER family and belonging to it ...

Meena had planned and initiated the deal with the classic car long before the crisis meeting and Nadir's
move out of the house they shared. The car had already been bought and just had to be delivered on
Nadir's birthday.

Rather, the letter was an expression of thanks and deep appreciation for the friendship they had shared
since childhood, for the time they had spent together and for the love they shared. 
The letter was perceived and honoured as such by Nadir...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda