Adultery Knowing My Wife, Knowing Me As Well - part III

[Harry Jordan]

Totally disagree and its just my opinion, we can agree to disagree.  

Krish no matter what he tries cannot beat Desai on bed and its a fact. The whole part 3 is written on a perspective that Desai is master in bed and its not just size or skill, Its also his passion to make women crave for him. Its proven in Ananya, Maithrei, Nidhi and at last even Meera(Sad). They cannot stop him. Also every one of these women were dreaming about him for so long after their first meeting , confirmed by Nidhi in previous ending and Now Meera  in last episode. Why do they have to dream about him? Its simply because Desai own their thoughts with memories. He gives each one of them such a pleasure and passion filled intimacy that they crave for it whether he is in their life or not.

Krish trying to beat Desai competing on bed is stupidity. He won't win. Instead he has to win over Desai with love and if you think about it that's the only thing that's keeping Meera away from Desai and only thing that can beat Desai. Desai's obsession with Meera loses every time against Meera's love for Krish or Krish's love for Meera. He accepted that defeat long time and didn't try to separate them directly so his only weapon is sex and he is using it well against Meera but still so far he is not successful but if Krish cheats Meera and starts an affair with Maithrei then when love between them is broken then Desai will get an opportunity that he has been looking for so long. I think time has come where this might happen, as our Author thought this is best way to make couple split or maybe he is writing an ending which is not favorable for Krish. Either way Krish with Maithrei is a bad plot. Krish feeling his skill on bed is inadequate is such a bullshit. He knows he is lacking skill from the beginning and its his own doing..he has made a routine of having sex with Meera only imagining other partners for so long that he lost his own appetite for her. When he is with others there is no such craving and hence he is doing better on bed with them. There is no macho Krish side here that can beat Desai competing on sex but there is a side to Krish that can regain his respect and show Meera her faults and make her realize that He is the one for her but not just with words but she should feel it in her.

I would have appreciated and respected Krish if he simply walked away from this marriage because Meera is not responding to him as he intended and despite his efforts her body is now craving Desai. Krish should realize that her fake or no orgasms won't work in this marriage for ever and he simply should walk away. She keeps saying she is happy with what ever she has and she loves it but we all know that's BS. So why should Krish believe that when he can clearly see that her body is not responding to his love. If Krish leaves her and then he befriends Maithrei then it would have made perfect sense and its not cheating too and Meera should figure out her life and feelings. That would have been an apt plot but now what we see is further degrading of Krish for no reason. I mean common how much character assassination can author do on Krish. He is shown as loser, he is shown as cuckold, He is shown as liar, He is shown as a person with no moral conscience ,Now he is shown as cheater. I do not understand what he will gain by an affair with Maithrei, if he is seeking revenge against Desai then that is a waste, if he is seeking solace from Meera and Desai then maybe but why not do it after leaving Meera. Overall very disappointed with new plot so far.

 I see your point to some extent


But I truly believe Krish has a quality that elevates him when it comes to sex. Desai might just be a better fucker in bed , but still the women in his life has always tried to emotionally connect with him. Krish's downfall is his own cuckolding thoughts. Even Ananya was willing to be with Krish for part 2 until she learned his true nature and went away. I honestly believe that Krish needs to be build better to make it seem that he is indeed an adequate lover. There is a masculinity in him that comes out only when things are way too low for him which is the Das incident.

And yes I agree to some extent , many women do see Desai as the better lover. But there is something that draws all these women to Krish , maybe its his beta quality of respecting them unlike Desai who doesn't. But Maithrei definitely has boldly shown interest in Krish many times despite the fact that she had already slept with Desai before meeting Krish. That could open the doorway for a Krish improvement arc , where Maithrei actually states Krish's quality and why she is attracted towards him despite of better sex experience with Desai.

Or the writer can go the usual route and have Desai be the mastermind and send Maithrei to Krish so that he can claim Meera for himself. But honestly I don't like that approach. There is a reason I like this story , and its partly because Krish is not the usual cuckold guy. Yes he is conflicted , but he can rise to the moment when it matters. Honestly yes a break up should happen , but it should happen on Krish's terms. It should not be initiated by Meera , because its Krish that needs the improvement in his character arc. He needs to rise up , regardless the author's mindset of no such thing as an 'ex-cuckold' , I believe that should be the ultimate ending to Krish and Meera's story. Krish overcoming his cuckolding kink and becoming a better man and Meera understanding and respecting an improved Krish and having their happy ending.

I don't want a mopey Krish , I want a Krish that finally decides its time to take charge. Maybe a fresh character introduction could help , like a new client to his security firm that loves Krish's work and he becomes a mentor and channels Krish's ability for better things which results in Krish becoming a better and capable person. Honestly I pictured Piyush to become his hyperman and become his great support as he evolves. Maithrei can be his 'friend with benefits' as he becomes better in sex since his mindset changes and he evolves in every way. Krish needs an 'evolution' arc. I don't want his ending to be a cuckold , I want him to bring the beacon of change in him and he becomes better. So that way when the story ends , when he says "knowing my wife and knowing me" , there is actual maturity and evolution in his character when it ends with this part.

I don't know where the author is taking it , but I am definitely curious on how this story will advance.