Adultery Knowing My Wife, Knowing Me As Well - part III

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One of the many directions are,
 “Meera now has no dignity left in her to face Krish. Even though Krish has made a mistake of letting her wife take another in their marital bed. It was 'her' who made the decision to let that happen. Meera knows very well that it was her own mistake and she let it happen, in fact she was looking forward to commit adultery just when the opportunity presented itself. So she'll do everything in her abilities to shift the blame to Krish. 'She has completely lost her chastity' after being a partner in crime with Desai. Now she will do all kinds of drama to point the fact that she was made to cheat 'only because of Krish'. She will blame his cuckold nature that led her to this stage”
 
This time she might not blame Krish. Meera always blamed Krish because other than few times when she committed adultery due to her own reasons when she confessed herself, he always instigates her into situations that cause pleasure for him and for her so her blaming Krish is not wrong, but his time she cheated him for the first time. The reason being she agreed to Desai to keep it a secret. So, it’s a first for her and for Krish so she might not blame Krish for her sin this time and in fact I think she will confess her feelings for Desai, and she will confess that she is at a crossroad and might have option other than her marriage. Couple might talk their lack of participation in this marriage, things that have been bad between them and with no blame game for first time they might recognize how bad they both have been making effort to fix it. And might also think there is no point being together. I think Meera will take blame this time and would want to separate from Krish because she cheated on him and cannot stay with him being guilty of herself and at the same time and she will also explain to him that he didn’t change so no point continuing this marriage.

“A lot of you had made a point as to why Krish is blaming himself, at least for once, he should blame Meera because right now in this situation she has no one to blame herself. She was equally participating in adultery. But that is one of the good quality of our Krish... Even when he has the 'impurity' of his cuckold nature, he also has 'purity' to take the blame completely on himself, his soul. In fact that is one of the good things I love about Krish, the ability to take blame upon one self even when there's none is a sign of great 'maturity' and an 'alpha!' ( I'll explain this segment a bit later )
 
When he saw Meera shedding tears, he knows her tears were 'genuine'. He could feel her pain in his own heart, he subconsciously feels that 'as a husband' he made a grave mistake! So he takes the blame completely upon himself. He could've changed the situation in so many ways but chose to remain silent, chose to remain witness to the event that is unfolding upon itself, chose to be a 'silent observer'.”

Excellent point my friend, You are right. Krish has this good side, and I have failed to recognize his good side…him being center of cuckoldry and dragging Meera every time with him caused me and lot of readers to hate him but his quality to blame himself shows his good nature. But that does not hide the fact that he is a bad husband and pathetic cuckold or would be cuckold or semi – cuckold. He makes silly mistakes and costs himself a lot of anxiety and puts his marriage at risk every time.

“One of the main factors of Meera is her righteousness and morality and she sees the world in the lens of virtue. These things make her proud and give her, her signature personality, now she finally lost it. She has committed a grave 'sin'. The sin of Adultery. But wasn't she doing this all these years??... All these years, she convinced herself that she's committing Adultery for Krish, but now for the first time she did something she couldn't recover from and she can't face Krish at all!

Her conscience completely shattered, she'll do everything possible to shift the blame towards Krish. Deep inside she knows she's at fault here, but blames Krish for not doing anything, "How could you possibly enjoy?" "Is this all you wanted??". In the heat of arguments, Krish will also blame Meera. Krish now knows Meera is seeking and has been missing out sexual pleasure. This void will only increase after this incident. Now he doesn't know "if Meera could ever be trusted?" "The love of my life could ever be trusted?". “

Yes, Meera’s personality comes from her virtue and righteousness, and you are partially right here…She will feel so dejected that she might not blame Krish this time. She knows she has lost that respect she commands from Krish as she cheated him for first time. Not because she did not have sex before with out Krish involvement and cheated him, its because she has emotionally connected with a third person for first time and agreed to keep it a secret and now, she knows Krish heard and saw everything so its real cheating in her mind and even in Krish’s mind. She did not do this all these years as you mentioned, this is the first of its kind for the couple. Previously every time she did a mistake, she only gave sex, and she always confessed to Krish, and he forgave her and asked her not to blame herself and restored her dignity. This time he cannot do that because she not just had sex, but she also got herself emotionally involved and your comparison with Ananya is spot on and echoes my thoughts and comments earlier where I said I thought Meera will be different, but she gave in just like Ananya and Nidhi.

Whether the couple will try to make up or split here one thing will happen and that is an emotional break up between them has happened already and now both must face consequences for their actions. Krish would as always blame himself as he did not stop and for first time Meera will acknowledge her feelings to Desai and realize that these feelings led her to cheat Krish. So she thinks continuing this marriage until she figures out her feelings is useless and this will give hint to Krish that there is a possibility that Meera might choose Desai. Unless Meera goes to Desai and leaves Krish they won't be able to repair this marriage, you need alone time apart from each other to understand the true value of that person you left behind.