Is Cuckolding ok just as a fantasy?

[raasug]

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Now, getting her to fuck another man, that too with my consent and my presence there, is a daunting task.
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It is an uphill task. Normally the traditional wife in the Indian context will not accept it. 

As a chaste wife, she feels proud to be a "Pathini" or "Pathiviratha". She enjoys a reputation in the society that she is a Chaste woman. She considers that her chastity is her valuable asset.

Once you ask her for an obligation to satisfy your strange desire, she will be upset or get angry with you.   There is a possibility that your name will get spoiled. 

However if there is any necessity for such an act thereby she will lose her reputation, there has to be a good reason. The reason cannot be just a momentary "Thrill", "Joy" or "Fun". 
 
The reason can be to get some undue favor such as a Promotion  in the job or getting a valuable contract or big order ... like that.

Anyway move with caution