24-11-2023, 01:54 PM
It depends on the couple.
Most actually don't do it on their first night as they are tired. Some just touch and maybe make out. They start doing from the next day onwards. A wedding is a tiring thing - it can wring you mentally and physically.
The one thing many are concerned about is inexperience. Usually the woman suffers more if the guy is inexperienced - as he won't know how to please her. The physical pain is a secondary issue for the woman, pleasure and love are first.
When I put it inside for the first time, I was gentle and told her to tell me if it hurt too much. Oral foreplay and lube also helps in easier insertion.
Most actually don't do it on their first night as they are tired. Some just touch and maybe make out. They start doing from the next day onwards. A wedding is a tiring thing - it can wring you mentally and physically.
The one thing many are concerned about is inexperience. Usually the woman suffers more if the guy is inexperienced - as he won't know how to please her. The physical pain is a secondary issue for the woman, pleasure and love are first.
When I put it inside for the first time, I was gentle and told her to tell me if it hurt too much. Oral foreplay and lube also helps in easier insertion.