13-02-2023, 05:53 PM
That day was very special as well as very important for me. I didn’t want to miss the opportunity because it could be the turning point of my career. So I have to give my best in every way, not only my presentation but also my outlook.
As like every day, I had a fight with my husband for some minor issues. He was a very frustrated guy, had no job then. Maybe his male ego hurt him every time as he had to live under his wife’s salary. He lost his job some time ago, that’s why I had to take the responsibility of my family.
We have a daughter of 5 years old who makes our family complete, the three members’ nuclear family, husband-wife and a daughter. We have been married for 6 years. We met at our college days. We fell in love. We decided to marry after college. He got a decent job.
I also wanted to do a job. But I didn’t want to hurt his male ego. He wanted to take all the responsibility and didn’t want me to work. I had always been a better student than him. So, if I did a job then I would earn more money than him. But I didn’t want him to feel insecure.
I sacrificed my career for him at the beginning of our married life. At first, it all goes well around us. We enjoyed our married life. We loved each other. One year after getting married, I gave birth a sweet daughter as a symbol of our love. But suddenly everything changed when he lost his job.
He didn’t find any other job. He tried and tried but failed to get any job. It made him frustrated. It affected our married life as well. He was always been irritated at home. The spark of our relationship was slowly going away. My family went through a financial crisis.
I thought that I had to take the responsibility, kept his ego aside. I tried to explain to him about our situation. I told him that until you get a job, I had to work for overcoming the situation as quickly as possible. But he was adamant, not ready to agree with my opinion.
He believes, in an IT sector, casting couch and sexual harassment are very common issues. If somehow the ‘pervert’ men of the authority come to know that the lady is going through a tough situation then they will take advantage of her. He gave the example of his former boss who tried his ‘luck’ on most of his female staff.
I tried to convince him by saying that it’s all in his imaginations and all are not same. Nothing will happen like that. Nobody will come to know why I want to do a job. But he stuck to his point as he always does. We had a long fight regarding this.
At last, I decided to ignore him as his words were so illogical. He was not aware of the situation we faced. His male ego didn’t allow him to think the matter practically. So, I stopped arguing with him and made my decision to find a job in the IT sector. I had also studied in IT like Amit.
I didn’t know what the consequences will be. But at that time, it was necessary for me to find a job for the sake of my family. Amit was very offended by my decision. But that was the only way to save my family from financial instability. I had no other option left.
I didn’t surrender myself in front of his dictatorship. I started to find a suitable job. After attempting many interviews in various companies finally, I got a job. I started my working life. Converting myself from a housewife to a working housewife. My personal life was going to be miserable.
His frustration increased day by day. Our married life was in deep trouble. But I was helpless as my job was very important to me in that situation. I was worried about our future, my daughter’s future. So, I was in no mood to leave the job. I had two option.
Either I would leave the job and be a good and obedient wife of Amit, leave the situation in the hand of destiny. Or be a practical woman and take all the responsibility of my family. I chose the second option as it was the right one. Day by day our bonding was becoming weak.
He became narrow-minded as he always stayed in the house. Sometimes I had a night shift in my office. Whenever I used to come back in the morning, he taunted me as he thinks that I spoiled my modesty. I always suggested him to do some small job rather than staying 24 hours in the house like jobless people.
An idle brain is a devil’s workshop. If he doesn’t try any job and is sitting in the house, then he will always think cheap things about me. But he was adamant. He didn’t listen to any good advice from me. He behaved like I am his enemy. Slowly I also lost interest in him because of his negativity and attitude towards me.
I forgot when we were physically close the last time! My life was then filled with full of darkness and miseries. In the office, I got promoted to the P.A. post of my boss. My salary increased due to my promotion. Maybe it was good news from the point of the financial side.
But I didn’t give the news to him as he will become more insecure after hearing this news. Especially if he comes to know that I became a P.A. of my boss. Then surely he will doubt me every time when I come back from the office. So I tried to hide the news of my promotion from him.
But after some days, he came to know that news from his IT ‘source’. He burst out on me without any reason. He was getting jealous of my progress. I was very hurt by his offensive words. At last, I told him that I am his wife, not his competitor. So, to be a supportive husband instead of getting jealous.
I started working on my new post very sincerely. From the beginning, I had a strong friendship bond with my boss as he was very helpful and supportive. I shared almost every official problem. He helped me to overcome those problems. Sometimes I shared my personal problems too with him.
So, he knew and was aware of most of the things about me and my life. He was a very polite and kind man. I liked and respect him very much as a person. Later he was trying to become franker with me after I became his P.A. He also started sharing his personal problem with me.
His personal life was also full of misery. His married life was not working anymore. His wife was very selfish and cruel towards him. According to his words, his wife was too selfish. She only thinks of herself. She didn’t take care of him. Her focus was always stuck in new sarees, jewelry, etc.
Actually, his father-in-law was the real owner of the company. His wife is the only daughter and successor of him. My boss became the chief of the company by marrying her. I noticed from a few days that my boss was trying to flirt with me. I didn’t say anything to him because somehow, I felt sorry for him.
He had a lot of personal problems in his life at the age of 55, and in that condition, it was very normal to stare in a lusty manner to a young beautiful woman like me when she is his P.A. I neither encouraged him nor warned him, if he became little happy to flirt with me then it’s alright.
I didn’t give any importance to this petty matter. So, these little flirting-staring things continued without my recognition. One day Pravin Sir told me that there was a meeting arranged with a client in a five-star hotel on Friday night. We had to attend that meeting at 7 PM.
He also said that I had to give my best at the meeting. My further promotion depended on my overall performance of that day. I felt nervous but he assured and guided me to how I should prepare for that meeting. He also advised me about what kind of dress I could wear at the meeting.
Finally, that day had come. It was a very special day from the point of my career. If I succeeded to make the deal final then it could be a turning point of my career. Maybe it can turn my entire life! I could be promoted as one of the senior managers of the company if I successfully handle the deal. Pravin Sir assured me.
I prepared for the meeting. Amit asked, “Where are you going?”
Me: I told you yesterday that today is a very important meeting. I have to go.
Amit: At night?
Me: So what? Why are you always so insecure? Open your mind and do some constructive work if you can.
Amit: So now you will teach me what should I do and what not?
Me: If I could then it will be better for you. But I am your wife, not your teacher.
Amit: You are crossing your limit now.
Me: Please, Amit, at least not today. Today is a very important day for me. I am in no mood to argue with you. If you can’t wish me good luck then don’t spoil my mood also. I want to free my mind from all the stupid arguments and focus on the subject of the meeting. So, please don’t talk to me if you want to quarrel with me.
Amit released his anger by giving a kick to the plastic chair and went to the room. I left for the office. I wore green colored silk chiffon saree with blue low neck cut blouse. Most of my male colleagues at the office stared at me with astonishment. Pravin sir was mesmerized when he saw me.
“Sorry for being late, sir.”
Pravin Sir: It’s ok. No need to say sorry. Don’t take it badly but today you are looking so hot and sexy.
I smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.”
Pravin Sir went into deep thought while keeping eyes on me. I felt shy and in a bit awkwardness. I said, “Sir, are you ok?”
“Yeah, I am fine. So, shall we go now?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Ok, let’s go to the meeting.”
He took me in his car. We went to the meeting which was arranged in a five-star hotel. Sir booked a room where we could talk to the clients. We entered the room and were waiting for the clients. In the meantime, I and Pravin sir discussed the agenda of the meeting.
After some time, the clients had come. We welcomed them. The meeting was going for 1 hour and ended with a good remark. We got the deal. The clients left after signing the deal with Pravin Sir. The time was around 8:30 PM on the clock. So I wanted to leave to go home.
But Pravin Sir told me to stay there for some time as he wanted to celebrate the moment with me. In his view, I took a major role to get the deal. I couldn’t refuse him as he is my boss and my promotion was in his hands. He ordered a whiskey bottle and offered me a peg.
As like every day, I had a fight with my husband for some minor issues. He was a very frustrated guy, had no job then. Maybe his male ego hurt him every time as he had to live under his wife’s salary. He lost his job some time ago, that’s why I had to take the responsibility of my family.
We have a daughter of 5 years old who makes our family complete, the three members’ nuclear family, husband-wife and a daughter. We have been married for 6 years. We met at our college days. We fell in love. We decided to marry after college. He got a decent job.
I also wanted to do a job. But I didn’t want to hurt his male ego. He wanted to take all the responsibility and didn’t want me to work. I had always been a better student than him. So, if I did a job then I would earn more money than him. But I didn’t want him to feel insecure.
I sacrificed my career for him at the beginning of our married life. At first, it all goes well around us. We enjoyed our married life. We loved each other. One year after getting married, I gave birth a sweet daughter as a symbol of our love. But suddenly everything changed when he lost his job.
He didn’t find any other job. He tried and tried but failed to get any job. It made him frustrated. It affected our married life as well. He was always been irritated at home. The spark of our relationship was slowly going away. My family went through a financial crisis.
I thought that I had to take the responsibility, kept his ego aside. I tried to explain to him about our situation. I told him that until you get a job, I had to work for overcoming the situation as quickly as possible. But he was adamant, not ready to agree with my opinion.
He believes, in an IT sector, casting couch and sexual harassment are very common issues. If somehow the ‘pervert’ men of the authority come to know that the lady is going through a tough situation then they will take advantage of her. He gave the example of his former boss who tried his ‘luck’ on most of his female staff.
I tried to convince him by saying that it’s all in his imaginations and all are not same. Nothing will happen like that. Nobody will come to know why I want to do a job. But he stuck to his point as he always does. We had a long fight regarding this.
At last, I decided to ignore him as his words were so illogical. He was not aware of the situation we faced. His male ego didn’t allow him to think the matter practically. So, I stopped arguing with him and made my decision to find a job in the IT sector. I had also studied in IT like Amit.
I didn’t know what the consequences will be. But at that time, it was necessary for me to find a job for the sake of my family. Amit was very offended by my decision. But that was the only way to save my family from financial instability. I had no other option left.
I didn’t surrender myself in front of his dictatorship. I started to find a suitable job. After attempting many interviews in various companies finally, I got a job. I started my working life. Converting myself from a housewife to a working housewife. My personal life was going to be miserable.
His frustration increased day by day. Our married life was in deep trouble. But I was helpless as my job was very important to me in that situation. I was worried about our future, my daughter’s future. So, I was in no mood to leave the job. I had two option.
Either I would leave the job and be a good and obedient wife of Amit, leave the situation in the hand of destiny. Or be a practical woman and take all the responsibility of my family. I chose the second option as it was the right one. Day by day our bonding was becoming weak.
He became narrow-minded as he always stayed in the house. Sometimes I had a night shift in my office. Whenever I used to come back in the morning, he taunted me as he thinks that I spoiled my modesty. I always suggested him to do some small job rather than staying 24 hours in the house like jobless people.
An idle brain is a devil’s workshop. If he doesn’t try any job and is sitting in the house, then he will always think cheap things about me. But he was adamant. He didn’t listen to any good advice from me. He behaved like I am his enemy. Slowly I also lost interest in him because of his negativity and attitude towards me.
I forgot when we were physically close the last time! My life was then filled with full of darkness and miseries. In the office, I got promoted to the P.A. post of my boss. My salary increased due to my promotion. Maybe it was good news from the point of the financial side.
But I didn’t give the news to him as he will become more insecure after hearing this news. Especially if he comes to know that I became a P.A. of my boss. Then surely he will doubt me every time when I come back from the office. So I tried to hide the news of my promotion from him.
But after some days, he came to know that news from his IT ‘source’. He burst out on me without any reason. He was getting jealous of my progress. I was very hurt by his offensive words. At last, I told him that I am his wife, not his competitor. So, to be a supportive husband instead of getting jealous.
I started working on my new post very sincerely. From the beginning, I had a strong friendship bond with my boss as he was very helpful and supportive. I shared almost every official problem. He helped me to overcome those problems. Sometimes I shared my personal problems too with him.
So, he knew and was aware of most of the things about me and my life. He was a very polite and kind man. I liked and respect him very much as a person. Later he was trying to become franker with me after I became his P.A. He also started sharing his personal problem with me.
His personal life was also full of misery. His married life was not working anymore. His wife was very selfish and cruel towards him. According to his words, his wife was too selfish. She only thinks of herself. She didn’t take care of him. Her focus was always stuck in new sarees, jewelry, etc.
Actually, his father-in-law was the real owner of the company. His wife is the only daughter and successor of him. My boss became the chief of the company by marrying her. I noticed from a few days that my boss was trying to flirt with me. I didn’t say anything to him because somehow, I felt sorry for him.
He had a lot of personal problems in his life at the age of 55, and in that condition, it was very normal to stare in a lusty manner to a young beautiful woman like me when she is his P.A. I neither encouraged him nor warned him, if he became little happy to flirt with me then it’s alright.
I didn’t give any importance to this petty matter. So, these little flirting-staring things continued without my recognition. One day Pravin Sir told me that there was a meeting arranged with a client in a five-star hotel on Friday night. We had to attend that meeting at 7 PM.
He also said that I had to give my best at the meeting. My further promotion depended on my overall performance of that day. I felt nervous but he assured and guided me to how I should prepare for that meeting. He also advised me about what kind of dress I could wear at the meeting.
Finally, that day had come. It was a very special day from the point of my career. If I succeeded to make the deal final then it could be a turning point of my career. Maybe it can turn my entire life! I could be promoted as one of the senior managers of the company if I successfully handle the deal. Pravin Sir assured me.
I prepared for the meeting. Amit asked, “Where are you going?”
Me: I told you yesterday that today is a very important meeting. I have to go.
Amit: At night?
Me: So what? Why are you always so insecure? Open your mind and do some constructive work if you can.
Amit: So now you will teach me what should I do and what not?
Me: If I could then it will be better for you. But I am your wife, not your teacher.
Amit: You are crossing your limit now.
Me: Please, Amit, at least not today. Today is a very important day for me. I am in no mood to argue with you. If you can’t wish me good luck then don’t spoil my mood also. I want to free my mind from all the stupid arguments and focus on the subject of the meeting. So, please don’t talk to me if you want to quarrel with me.
Amit released his anger by giving a kick to the plastic chair and went to the room. I left for the office. I wore green colored silk chiffon saree with blue low neck cut blouse. Most of my male colleagues at the office stared at me with astonishment. Pravin sir was mesmerized when he saw me.
“Sorry for being late, sir.”
Pravin Sir: It’s ok. No need to say sorry. Don’t take it badly but today you are looking so hot and sexy.
I smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.”
Pravin Sir went into deep thought while keeping eyes on me. I felt shy and in a bit awkwardness. I said, “Sir, are you ok?”
“Yeah, I am fine. So, shall we go now?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Ok, let’s go to the meeting.”
He took me in his car. We went to the meeting which was arranged in a five-star hotel. Sir booked a room where we could talk to the clients. We entered the room and were waiting for the clients. In the meantime, I and Pravin sir discussed the agenda of the meeting.
After some time, the clients had come. We welcomed them. The meeting was going for 1 hour and ended with a good remark. We got the deal. The clients left after signing the deal with Pravin Sir. The time was around 8:30 PM on the clock. So I wanted to leave to go home.
But Pravin Sir told me to stay there for some time as he wanted to celebrate the moment with me. In his view, I took a major role to get the deal. I couldn’t refuse him as he is my boss and my promotion was in his hands. He ordered a whiskey bottle and offered me a peg.
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