02-01-2023, 12:26 PM
I was in shy to pen down my opinions for past two parts of this series. But somewhat at the middle of part 3, I started to write my comments. I am not a fan of Meera or Krish Or Desai. But if you ask me to choose one from above three, I will pick Krish as he is a wonderful character and nice human being except his fantasy ( I don't like cuckold but I don't hate those living with that. I have seen many happy and successful couple who still following cuckold life and I have also known those couples once cuckold and now part away from such adventures and still have a happy life as before). When I started to read the comment session, people divide into mainly three groups. Some are aganist Krish and consider him as wipm and pimp. Some are in favour of Meera and Desai. some readers support Meera for her true love towards Krish and they also like Krish except his constant fantasy adventures(Example RCF and a few).
I was doubtful about Meera's love towards krish from part 2 onwards. But part 3 confirmed it and I started to pen down my opinion. As I commented earlier, I always felt there is only one true/ unconditional love here. That is Krish's love toward meera. And two big manipulators- Desai and Meera. RCF always have a wonderful counter thoughts and they are all reasonable when looking from the Meera's perspective. Somehow I was not able to buy those opinion. Because I was always confirmed my gut feeling from the actions of Meera than sugar coated words.
All affairs have two phases. One progress to another. The first phase is usually of Emotional Affair (EA) part and it eventually grow to Physical Affair (PA). It is comparatively easy to identify the PA for your spouse or lover compared to EA. In PA, your spouse will maintain less physical intimacy or they will be passive in love making. Also there will be many more red flags. But it is really difficult to identify about your partner's EA. Because during the EA, your partner behave quiet normally. They will actively participate in sex, they will care about you as normal , they will say all sugar coated words, and if you see any red flag, they immediately assuare that nothing need to be worry. Beacuse in this phase they will gaslight and manipulate a lot. They don't want to loose you now. They are still buying time for the final decision. So manipulation and gaslighting and constant assurances through sugar coated word are common so that you will not be able to identify or will not doubt the existence of your partner's affair.
In our story, the sequance was just opposite. First it was PA and later stage EA.let us examin the level of manipulation of meera towards krish to hide her affair. Just take the last chapter (41) as a reference. On the way to saloon, meera told to krish that Desai forces her to say love words during the peak of sex and he consider him as her husband. Krish got alrmed and told meera that she should not reciprocate to his love words and don't give such hope. Meera immediately reassured that even Desai is not serious about his confession of love words. So no need to worry. But we know the truth. In previous episode meera itself verified with Desai about his seriousness of his love, his desire to marry her and his commitment towards meera. But when krish got alarmed, she play down his concern by manipulations. Because she was not fully taken her decision and she wanted to keep krish in dark. But at the same evening after breakup and just before going to have sex with Desai, meera told to krish that Desai loves her and love only her and she can not keep him waiting for a long and he already become as her other husband. Because the incidents forced her to take her pending decision as fast as possible. There are many such manipulation by meera. When ever krish feels insecurity towards Desai and meera, meera used to say reassuring words to krish which given a sense of assurance to krish about her wife. That is how EA work. That is how spouse cheat in during EA.
There are many events which verified my doubts. Some of them are I already wrote in previous episodes. Till chapter 41, my assumptions are seems to be right. But I don't trust author krish. He can change all my assumptions as wrong as well with a single chapter also. Waiting..
I was doubtful about Meera's love towards krish from part 2 onwards. But part 3 confirmed it and I started to pen down my opinion. As I commented earlier, I always felt there is only one true/ unconditional love here. That is Krish's love toward meera. And two big manipulators- Desai and Meera. RCF always have a wonderful counter thoughts and they are all reasonable when looking from the Meera's perspective. Somehow I was not able to buy those opinion. Because I was always confirmed my gut feeling from the actions of Meera than sugar coated words.
All affairs have two phases. One progress to another. The first phase is usually of Emotional Affair (EA) part and it eventually grow to Physical Affair (PA). It is comparatively easy to identify the PA for your spouse or lover compared to EA. In PA, your spouse will maintain less physical intimacy or they will be passive in love making. Also there will be many more red flags. But it is really difficult to identify about your partner's EA. Because during the EA, your partner behave quiet normally. They will actively participate in sex, they will care about you as normal , they will say all sugar coated words, and if you see any red flag, they immediately assuare that nothing need to be worry. Beacuse in this phase they will gaslight and manipulate a lot. They don't want to loose you now. They are still buying time for the final decision. So manipulation and gaslighting and constant assurances through sugar coated word are common so that you will not be able to identify or will not doubt the existence of your partner's affair.
In our story, the sequance was just opposite. First it was PA and later stage EA.let us examin the level of manipulation of meera towards krish to hide her affair. Just take the last chapter (41) as a reference. On the way to saloon, meera told to krish that Desai forces her to say love words during the peak of sex and he consider him as her husband. Krish got alrmed and told meera that she should not reciprocate to his love words and don't give such hope. Meera immediately reassured that even Desai is not serious about his confession of love words. So no need to worry. But we know the truth. In previous episode meera itself verified with Desai about his seriousness of his love, his desire to marry her and his commitment towards meera. But when krish got alarmed, she play down his concern by manipulations. Because she was not fully taken her decision and she wanted to keep krish in dark. But at the same evening after breakup and just before going to have sex with Desai, meera told to krish that Desai loves her and love only her and she can not keep him waiting for a long and he already become as her other husband. Because the incidents forced her to take her pending decision as fast as possible. There are many such manipulation by meera. When ever krish feels insecurity towards Desai and meera, meera used to say reassuring words to krish which given a sense of assurance to krish about her wife. That is how EA work. That is how spouse cheat in during EA.
There are many events which verified my doubts. Some of them are I already wrote in previous episodes. Till chapter 41, my assumptions are seems to be right. But I don't trust author krish. He can change all my assumptions as wrong as well with a single chapter also. Waiting..