Adultery Knowing My Wife, Knowing Me As Well - part III

[Amit2021msm]

I am a bit disappointed! Disappointed on characterization of Krish. Otherwise, Marvelous on each department!

 
Krish, being cuckold, his excitement on fulfilling his dream is acceptable. But, as human and moreover a loving husband, he is bound to think about the proceedings and background interactions led to present incidents, once the excitement subsides. He is bound to think about his future relationship with Meera. The discovery of Meera’s betrayal (Planned activities) behind him must shake his confidence on love and he is ought to analyze immediately. He can’t peacefully fall in sleep!
 
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While going through the comments, I find myself in an awkward position. Lack of understanding and appreciating the concept of 'love'. Again and again I puzzled with the enormity of conceptuality of love. What is its expression? Is its depth rely solely on communication? If so, is it expressed only verbally?
 
Yes, though the subject is general in nature, i hereby particularly concerned about the nature of love related to Meera.
 
Love and Lust are intrinsic attributes of mind, while outcomes are activities in justifying the basic nature of the character. In similar situations, behaviour of the concerned persons can differ widely.
 
Biologically, every individual's sex drive is different and so with Meera. Also we excel in professional field with God gifted physical and intellectual attributes. Meera utilising her physical attributes in her favour generally should not be objected provided legality and morality are not questioned. Because, we all know, both are imposed by humans for specific reasons. By definition, Meera's activities may be compared to whore, but in my opinion, expression of love need not be mixed with this.
 
There are many more aspects beyond legality and morality. Humanity! This is one attribute not dependent on culture, religion, language, sex, age or not even with one's physical or intellectual qualities. Humanity is universal. Proper education manifests humanity. All negative attributes generate in our mind from non-adhering to humanity.
 
I think, expression of love bears a great relationship with humanity.
 
For those who believes in Meera’s love, I have questions within the boundaries of acquired knowledge.
 
Meera is a habitual liar and she manipulates incidents in favour of her requirement. Definitely, she has expressed her love for Krish many a times verbally. But, in action, she has not taken any positive steps to bring back Krish to normalcy. Neither herself nor through medical assistance. What she did is fuelling Krish’s cuckoldry nature by realizing his fantasy. It’s immaterial, whether she was benefited out of this cuckoldry arrangement. What matters is what goodness she achieved for Krish’s wellbeing.
 
Meera’s submission to her partners can be Lust. It can be self-sexual pleasure. It could be sacrifice self for Krish’s fantasy. Whatever be the reasons, where is the love for Krish?
 
 
Can anybody point to a single incidence, where Meera acted positively for wellbeing of Krish. A single positive incident which is devoted to cure Krish from his mental ailment?
 
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I believe in the following theory.
 
Every individual loves himself more than anybody. His all activities are solely devoted for self-satisfaction, an expression of self-love.
 
The objective of individuals is self-satisfaction. His actions and reactions are controlled by self-satisfaction within albeit of his capabilities. For example, by loving others, his ego is satisfied. He is more contended. By not loving others, he is pained. He must love others for self-satisfaction. In similar way, by causing pain to others, if he gets self-satisfaction, he would continue creating pains to others.
 
Whenever we protest against any behavior, we protest, because by not protesting we feel unhappy. If we could be happy by not protesting, we would have definitely not protested and vice versa.
 
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So, let Meera behave to make herself happy. Because, whatever she is doing, she is doing with her full knowledge and willingness. She is not forced to behave. She is not a psychological patient.

If Krish is allowed to think over the ground realities, once his cuckoldry excitement  subsides after satisfactory ejaculation (For every male, mind comes to ground state after ejaculation), he will discover Meera in new angle. He would realize the truth.

Only question, will author Krish allow Krish to keep awake for some time to rethink for self-realization?
 
 
manasi

Everything you said , I totally agree with you ! 

Meera never show her love towards Krsih , except when she was alone n no one was there or No other option!

- she left Shekar bcz he dead !
- she left das , baz he was moving out of India forever!
- she would have slept with Sam but she know how he is in bed , so she
Didn’t !
- Arman and sunny never came back , she didn’t get chance with them !
- she would have  slept with Vivek ,if  krish was not there at her home that day !
- she want Desai back , becz she knew form Ananya how he was rough on bed .
- eveytime she does anything she just ask sorry and cries and she knows Krsih love her and forgive him n move on easily ! 



In this chapter she shows her real character and totally ignored Krish and humiliate him! And become Desai whore ! She don’t care about Krish anymore !

Krish wants to have sex in the car , she totally ignored and on the other hand she was totally acted like a slut with Desai in open public ( in temple n bus )

Now even if Desai leaves , she will find some else to fulfill here desire n she knows  krish will help her and won’t say no! 
Desai called her BITCH in the first encounter and treated roughly - that’s shows she wanted to be treated like a slut And fucked like whore !


Now we know she is bigger player and krish just a pawn in her hand !

Still I don’t understand why krish suffering this much , if he is not enjoying , Atleast try to stop her ! Atleast open his feelings with Meera ! Why he is leaving a pathetic life like this! Leave her and move on !