Fantasy அவன், அவள், புருஷன் (Completed - நிறைவு)

[veenaimo]

Dear shivaKrishna,

I understand that you have some inner turmoil about the flow of the story.  I dont know how old are you or how long have you been reading sex stories.  I dont know you are actually a male or a female in disguise. Read on. 
Usually sex stories that are written by creative intellectual  people tend to explore on dark aspects of the human psyche.  Sexual pleasure and the arousal pattern associated with it are triggered by a lot of complex psychological make up of the particular individuals. You may be 
turned on by something while someone may be turned off by it. Ok

You enjoy certain theme based on your sexual preferences.  We tend to identify ourselves and our life circumstances with the characters of the story or the flow of the story.  We get disturbed if the character that we identify ourselves with behaves in a way that  raises our deep fears of our own life, as to how humiliating or shameful we would feel if we are to end up that way.
However our logical brain  interferes and tries to defy our anxieties. I tell you, no man wants to be cuckolded, because it means we are being betrayed by our own partner. All the emotional, financial investements we make go down the drain.  No one wants that. However there are certain people who have sadomasochistic tendencies who enjoy it.

Dont look for justifications for cheating. I think if you are a woman, you are identifying yourself with bavani. You are getting turned on by associating yourself with bavani, and what you will do in your own life if you have to act like her. Thats why you are looking for excuses like citing husband's lack of love as the reason for cheating. 
And if you are a man while you enjoy the story you fear that of happening in your life and thats why you are convincing yourself that if you love your wife she wont cheat.   Or even if she cheats, you fear that secretly you will enjoy it. You feel humiliated and diminished by getting turned on over such incidents. Then you say to yourself that you wont succumb like bavani husband. You wont remain innocent and fight .

Your problem is that you put yourself in the shoes of the husband. You are fighting with your own confusing self. One part of you enjoys the struggles of the husband and other part of you is criticizing you of your enjoyment. You have struggles to accept your own self getting torn between conflicting emotions of lust  and ego.

Its time to take THE RED PILL.  Dont get caught between conflicting thoughts. These emotions if you dont resolve could damage your own personal life.  you are responsible for your own well being. you cant expect to change others for you to feel comfortable.  If you are disturbed just read something else that you like. You have a lot of sexual stories of varying themes in this forum. Go read.
You have every right to give your viewpoints or preference but you should know the limit. The problem is that no body likes nagging or complaining.  
REMEMBER DONT THINK TOO MUCH LIKE WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOU HAVE TO FACE SUCH SITUATIONS LIKE THAT HUSBAND DID IN YOUR OWN LIFE.  OK.
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Nice and very true.. makes lot sense..