07-02-2022, 12:01 PM
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(06-02-2022, 08:41 PM)Bumba_1 Wrote: গতকাল Sanjay Sen চলে গেলো, আজ তুমি চলে যাচ্ছো। আমারতো অধিকার নেই কাউকে আটকানোর। এই ফোরামে তোমরা দুজনই আমার প্রকৃত বন্ধু ছিলে। আর দু'জন খুব ভালো বন্ধু হলো Baban ও ddey333 .. আমিও তাহলে কেটে পড়ি বেশি ভাট না বকে, যাদের কথা বললাম এদের সবার কথা খুব মনে পড়বে।
bye everyone
Dear Mr Bumba,
I am writing because a couple of things attracted my attention:
1. It is indeed unfortunate that you are endorsing someone's comments who is crassly insolent of the readers "এখানকার পাঠক গুলো সত্যি জঘন্য"
2. You tried to mediate between two squabbling parties. Thank you for that.
However, in this message you have admitted that you are "real friend" to one that was one party. And the another "good friend" the name of whom you mentioned also was in the same party together. In view of that I am not sure you were able to be an impartial mediator.
In the interest of fairness, I do think that you should have recused yourself from being mediator. Else, people like me would deem that you utterly failed as a fair mediator, and you should be removed from being one, should you not recuse yourself.
I am attracting the attention of the moderator in this case. please.
Question for you:
1. How come this gentleman Mr. Bumba was appointed as a mediator, when he self-admittedly was close to one of the squabbling parties?
2. What is the reason he was not excused from continuing his position? or do I take it he was not really appointed by you, only he functioned on his own - self-styled?
3. What is the reason he was not reprimanded from calling you as his brother?
A moderator is nobody's brother or a dear friend that might cloud his impartiality. If anybody dares to call him in any such endearing terms should be severely, formally and publicly censured.