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[tirths2000]

Difference Between Argument and Discussion.

If the talk is of an angry tone with the parties being upset with each other or not willing to listen to each other's view point, it is an argument.

However, if the tone is more polite or rational and reasonable, it is called a discussion.

Usually, when we argue, we tend to find ways to hurt people rather than trying to solve the issue. We do so through offensive statements, bringing back the past, aiming at insecurities and getting physical. 

A sane voice from the moderator.

However, at the same time we need to act resolutely against repeat offenders. That would demonstrate courage from the moderator/leadership.

That would also restore confidence among the plebeians that we are.