ab tak 42 - Autobiography of the Promiscuous Male

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Year 2013

Certain years stand out more in one's life than all others. 2013 was one such year for me.That was the year of break-ups and new beginnings for me. Also, it changed the way I did my business.

Year saw bidding good-bye to Miss World, Sanghmitra and Shweta. And the new beginning was a girl in my life, who was just 23 at that time and we are still maintaining a quasi-live-in relationship. So a recap on all these incidents, before proceeding with the newer girls.
1. Miss World: Though we were fighting cases for last almost four years by then. There was nothing that both of us was going to achieve. She had taken away all my monies and properties and I had settled most fake cheque-bouncing cases that she and her brother had hoisted on me. I was insisting that my Saali should come to Witness Box and give evidence. I was hell-bent on grilling her and they also knew that she was the weakest link in their chain. My political friend acted as a mediator and all cases were settled once and for all. I on my part extracted a weekend visitations for my son. So barring when he has exams or like, I get to bring him home on Saturdays after college and drop her to Miss World's place on Sunday evening. She remarried to another business man and though we casually see and talk to each other, the bitterness in us still lingers.

2. Sanghmitra: Sanghmitra's daughter was growing while she was fucking me so after years of satisfying sex which we were having, her daughter one day revolted against her. Of course loads of people spread all kind of stories against me and her and painted her as a villain in my story. On our part we also became open about our relationship and few of the relatives of Sanghmitra came and threatened her for maligning the name of the family. The daughter threatened suicide. A teenager can't understand that love has different forms. In any case, Sanghmitra shifted back to Kolkatta alongwith her daughter. She sold the flat which was built by her ex-husband. I on my part gave her as much as I could for her share in the new company of mine. She leads a comfortable middle class life in Kolkatta with all the savings and monies. And I would always be ready for any assistance that she requires. We have not met since 2013 but keep abreast of whats going on in each other's life by our infrequent calls. The daughter has grown well and is doing some course which I assume would fetch her a good career in another year or so. I have offered to pay her college fee as well. The same was declined by Sanghmitra but she also got a job through our old references.

3. Shweta: The teacher of my son, who had filed a case of divorce against her husband on grounds of cruelty was dreaming of marrying me. When I got divorced and she came to know of Sanghmitra she confronted me. I accepted the truth and she was dejected. She asked me about my future plans and I tried to have an honest discussion with her about my promiscuous nature. She did not have the stomach to accept the same and she also went away from my life. She has never accepted my overtures since then.

This was also the year, when my political friend pulled me into his politics. Off-course, I am indebted to him and would always remain. I do a lot of liasioning for him and also helped him in elections. I also handle his office and work as a good deputy for him in his absence. I may have repaid his debts by getting him benefits out of various dealings, but he and I never discuss money. The benefits which reach him I have no stake in it and I run my parallel consultancy. Off course connections help and I am doing reasonably well. My hunger for money has not diminished but I don't intend to amass a wealth. I spend lavishly and donate heavily to cancer aid and some of the NGOs working for men fighting against misuse of law.


This was the year, I met a left leaning little brash girl who was starting her career in main-stream TV journalism. She belongs to Chattisgarh and used to stay in a PG in Delhi. She and I hit on well and now have a quasi-live-in arrangement.

Quasi Live-in as my father started visiting me once a month for a week or so. Now this girl goes back to her PG when my father is in town and shifts back in my house when my father goes back. Also, at times, I send her to PG when I have some other fucking arrangement. Though she minds my fucking other girls, she and I have decided not to marry and she thinks I am loyal to her now.
Also, it was the first time in my life in year 2013, I realized that I could not fuck endlessly. Gone were the days of my having 5-6-7 sessions of fucks daily. I was slowing down and my capacity came down to 3 comfortable fucks a day, which now stands at 2 comfortable fucks a day.

And also, this was the year when I started writing my memoirs on Exbii. Exbii in between had some problems and it changed to Xossip. I did not get to know about the change and was silent on the forum for some time. But I intend to complete my memoirs.

Another change I have seen since 2013. Since 2013, I have bedded 7 girls and got blowjob from 2 others, all these girls started their sex lives either close to 2010 or after that. I have seen that all these girls give great blow-jobs or atleast have no qualms in giving blowjobs. My girls who started sex life in 1990s in general were very reluctant to take dick in mouth, they needed to be coaxed or forced to do so. Girls who started sex lives from 2000-2010 were a mixed back, almost all sucked, but few enjoyed and few gave blowjobs to satisfy male ego.

Another interesting observation that I have is that girls now take initiative. Gone are the days when the girls who wanted sex as much as you still did Nakhras at the beginning. Now they ask for it. I have been spooked on couple of occasions and have backed out with such girls. But this seems a new trend.

Also, I now know when a girl says no, it means NO. Previously no meant no, maybe, yes and what not. Now a no means NO and a yes means YES.
The girls of today are more demanding in bed than before and they are more ready to come to bed. I guess I was born 10 years too early because now because of work, my political orientation and lesser sex drive I take my chances very calculatingly. I have foregone atleast 8 more girls whom I could have bedded easily. And these don't include few other girls who were ready to be pimped by their husbands or others for favors.

This update was necessary detour from my sex adventures, so as my readers could have a feel on what went from here onwards.