26-06-2020, 06:21 PM
"Of course, I have. It's almost impossible for a guy not to come across it at some point in their lives. You remember when I went to my cousin's stag party last year?"
"Yeah."
"His friends put on a hardcore porn movie."
"So did you enjoy watching it? she asked.
"Not really," he said, "it doesn't take long for it to get boring."
"You're joking. I though all guys get off on porn."
"Some do," he replied, "but doing it is a hell of a lot more fun than watching it on screen. When it comes to sex, I prefer to be a participant, not a spectator. I also think that what makes sex erotic is seduction and the anticipation of the pleasure to come, not the gross depiction of physical sexual acts you see in porn movies."
"So we've done it all." She was not sure if that was a statement of a question.
"No, hon, we haven't done it all. Rather, it's all we've done."
"You have a way with words, Nagesh," Aarti replied laconically.
"We have had a really good sex life although we seem to be in the doldrums." To reassure his wife, he quickly added, "Let me clear. I'm not blaming you. You've done nothing wrong. I think we need to recharge, spice up our sex life."
"To be honest, Nagesh, you have a point. I think I know what you mean. Maybe, we should find a way to get out of our rut."
"Well, Aarti, you're a librarian and librarians know how to look for information. Do you want to take on the task of finding out what's out there on the subject?"
Aarti blushed. "Me? But Nagesh, you're a records manager. You know how to look for information too."
"It's not the same. We have similar skill sets, but use them for entirely different purposes," he replied. "You work in a science library. You've helped students do research projects on all kinds of subjects including sex. You told me so yourself. I'm asking you to use your search skills and knowledge to find information for us when you are at home."
"You have a point," Aarti said, "although I'm not sure I know what I should be looking for."
"You're very bright, my love. I'm sure you'll figure it out."
"Yeah."
"His friends put on a hardcore porn movie."
"So did you enjoy watching it? she asked.
"Not really," he said, "it doesn't take long for it to get boring."
"You're joking. I though all guys get off on porn."
"Some do," he replied, "but doing it is a hell of a lot more fun than watching it on screen. When it comes to sex, I prefer to be a participant, not a spectator. I also think that what makes sex erotic is seduction and the anticipation of the pleasure to come, not the gross depiction of physical sexual acts you see in porn movies."
"So we've done it all." She was not sure if that was a statement of a question.
"No, hon, we haven't done it all. Rather, it's all we've done."
"You have a way with words, Nagesh," Aarti replied laconically.
"We have had a really good sex life although we seem to be in the doldrums." To reassure his wife, he quickly added, "Let me clear. I'm not blaming you. You've done nothing wrong. I think we need to recharge, spice up our sex life."
"To be honest, Nagesh, you have a point. I think I know what you mean. Maybe, we should find a way to get out of our rut."
"Well, Aarti, you're a librarian and librarians know how to look for information. Do you want to take on the task of finding out what's out there on the subject?"
Aarti blushed. "Me? But Nagesh, you're a records manager. You know how to look for information too."
"It's not the same. We have similar skill sets, but use them for entirely different purposes," he replied. "You work in a science library. You've helped students do research projects on all kinds of subjects including sex. You told me so yourself. I'm asking you to use your search skills and knowledge to find information for us when you are at home."
"You have a point," Aarti said, "although I'm not sure I know what I should be looking for."
"You're very bright, my love. I'm sure you'll figure it out."
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