Adultery My wife, why did she betray me (completed)

[Krish World]

A marital relationship is for caring and sharing. Not only mutual trust but also honesty is prime responsibility for both for a fruitful and blissful married life. Each individual have his or her personal goals to achieve. However, you need to understand others requirements and sacrifice suitability. Nobody in this world can fulfill partner's all requirements.

Yes, Saravana fulfilled all vital and essential requirements of Meera. Definitely, he could not get into the mind of Meera to understand her sexual orientation. Can he be blamed for this? It is expected that a man shares his primary responsibility first which he performed perfectly. Sex is not everything in life. Sàravana is not impotent. Only he lacked to create thril in Meera's mind. And he could not. Because, human mind is always addicted to something which is considered not appropriate and banned. The thrill of adultery can never be created by Saravana.

If Saravana is to be blamed for not caring for satisfying sex Meera, why not Meera shoulder more responsibility for the same. While Saravana was busy in meeting livelihood, what Meera had done. She was supposed to make herself prepared for husband. Was it not her responsibility to ensure physical and mental stabilization of her husband and take care of family as a whole. If she had to earn livelihood, she could have understood the difficulty in life. Even she denied blowjob, which Saravana could have forced.

Sàravana could have looked for sexual activities denied by Meera at somewhere else. He hd control over his emotions and so he is fool.
Meera could not fulfill her basic requirements and surrendered to lust even after 3 years gap is not acceptable in any relationship. Even if her adulterous activities in the beginnings can be condoned on benifits of deprived sexuality, continuing the same after 3 years not acceptable.

Her realisation don't have any meaning at this juncture. She had already proved herself not fit for becoming wife of anybody.  Husbands are not machines to fulfill wives sexual desires. There are many important works than making wife happy. That also where wife deliberately wants to become unhappy without committing to her responsibilities.

Meera doesn't deserve to be perdoned.
But Saravana is Saravana. He is above the common perceptions. Meera is blessed to have Sàravana as husband.

Meera can to some extent reduce her crime by revenge. She can make Prabhu lifeless not fit to look at any woman.  He deserves to be made impotent permanently.

Awesome bro. Completely agree with you