Adultery My wife, why did she betray me (completed)

[manas]

Meera should not be punished. All the fault lies with Saravanan. He did not satisfy and appreciate his beautiful wife. She was new to all the pleasures that prabu gave her and started to like it. After their first love making, She wants to know if there are anything else that her husband did not give her, this led to daily mating between them. She learned new lessons of love making with prabu and enjoyed it to the fullest. She was happy that prabu was appreciating her beauty every day and even after enjoying her body. This made her more proud of her beauty and she started to love him and give him all the pleasures that she did not give her husband.


Persons like saravanan do not deserve a wife like meera. He had a complex about his looks when he saw her first time. He thought she is beautiful, so she will not marry him. He is not strong or handsome like prabu. The only thing is that he did not spy her. He must be average or below average when it come to looks and strength. He is also mentally weak and inferior and feared to lose his wife to a strong rival. After seeing his wife making out with prabu more happily ever and giving blowjob, he understood that he lost the race. Now, he started fearing what if his wife ran away with prabu. If prabu father did not come to abandoned temple, the story would have been completely different.

This is really interesting. I think first time, concept of punishment has come.

Actually, in any kind of relationship, which is not approved by society, many people directly or indirectly get punished. Society dictates terms and gives punishment. Sometimes the punishment is self indulged. In Prabhu-Meera extramarital relationship, the other affected persons are Saravana and Prabhu’s parents at present. Once the affair becomes public, the other persons who will be harshly affected are Meera’s children, Prabhu’s wife & child and Prabhu’s In-laws.  Among them most severe will be Meera’s children and Prabhu’s wife & child.

If we can keep away societal norms and believe in human liberation, truly speaking, Meera has not done anything wrong. She has the right to explore her sexuality. Just by marriage, she can’t be property of anybody. So, definitely, Meera does not deserve to be punished.

When we talk about punishment, the question definitely arises: Who punishes whom and How?

If adultery becomes public, no individual may not be requiring punishing anybody.  Society will dictate punishment, and all of them will be punished. The severity will be mostly shouldered by Meera’s children &  Prabhu’s child and that too without their fault. They are young. A big question mark limps on their future.

Meera is not economically independent and Prabhu started his family. If we agree, Saravana does not deserve Meera and so he deserts her, who will be punished? Where Meera will go? Even with all odds, if Prabhu gives her shelter, he imparts punishment to his family without their fault. Is it possible to punish Meera alone without imparting punishment to others? Will it be acceptable to Meera to put her children into great turmoil and lifelong humiliation by her act of eloping with Prabhu? Isn’t it itself punishment? I doubt. Is she so un-human? So I conclude, if Meera gets minimum punishment, it will be by herself only. No punishment, means she does not get to know the truth.

Now, let’s see Saravana’s position. He has given chances to his wife and friend considering time will be a great healer and they will control their emotions. (Say, accepted he has behaved cowardly by not deserting his wife considering his foolish self respect and well being of children’s future.) However, after a gap of more than two years, he finds himself wrong, as the time had no affects on their attractions. Even, understanding the reality that he is no match for Prabhu and he does not deserve to be husband of Meera in all respect, he is a father of two young children. He has responsibility on them. To secure the future of the children, he may not have many options left. Quite possible, he may have to behave like a coward till his lifetime. He likes or not, he has to make some sacrifice, willingly or unwillingly.

What Saravana and Meera will do, future will tell us.

If I would have been in Saravana’s position, I would have taken Meera into confidence exposing the truth and helping her into taking decisions. I am sure; Meera will change drastically once she knows the truth. Isn’t our behaviours are so construed when we assume other’s ignorance? We pluck flowers in the absence of gardener or CC Camera. Meera longing for Prabhu with knowledge of the truth and without are not same. Because I know, nobody is perfect in this world all the time. And you need to sacrifice something to achieving something somewhere.