19-12-2019, 02:59 PM
In my opinion, Meera is more vulnerable to break under conflict of issues than Prabhu or Saravana. Before proceeding, I would like to emphasize on few things:
My assumptions are:
1. So far the story has not deviated from reality and in future will not deviate.
2. Normally the behaviour of characters is influenced by their motive and self value unless forced upon. There can be temporary short term discourse from path by the influence of sudden emotional burst.
3. The basic characteristics of a person do never get a sea change. Apparent changes will reverse with slightest opportunity. A person with crocked mentality will remain so and vice versa.
4. Whenever a character visits oneself in memory, character speaks the truth. After all you can never deceive yourself concisely.
I believe:
1. I am not moral security officer and have no inclination to dictate which is correct or wrong. Based on circumstantial evidences, I will try to reason the way characters may behave in future.
2. In no way I am trying or will try to influence author from his judgement about future of this story.
I request readers to add or correct me with reason of course:
Prabhu:
He has slept with many.
By seeing Meera for first time, the only think surfaced in his brain is how to make her a prey. He lusted over her and planned how to seduce her. At that instant, there was no love.
“”Prabu was very happy because he knew that he would have no trouble getting her introduction. From the first day he saw Meera, he would be troubled by her in his dreams. Prabu had from the very beginning been friendly with an ulterior intention in his mind. He was vehement in his mind that he must have Meera at least one day. Prabu was not without experience in sex. So far he had had sexual relationship with two women but this was the first time he was having desire for a married woman.
That she was his friend’s wife made him both happy and at the same time uneasy. Happy that because she was wife of a friend, he would easily get to know her and at the same time uneasy because that would mean he intended to seduce such a woman. Friendship was a very cherished relationship. This would be betrayal of the trust on which friendship is built.””
For Prabhu, morality is luxury with no value. Otherwise, he would not have seduced Meera knowing very well she is wife of his friend. Even after successfully seducing Meera, while he was mating her for first time, he was planning how to make it a regular affair.
“””Prabu’s intention was that this should not be a one time sexual mating. He wanted to enjoy this delightful body again and again. He fully realised that even though she was in sexual delirium at present and that this would be very enjoyable for her, her guilt would come back in full force when she was alone again after he had left her. She would feel mortified that she had committed a great sin by engaging in this adulterous copulation. The thought would make her cry in agony when she was alone. She would definitely be determined to end this with this first unfortunate (for her) coitus.
So, it was important that he drowned her in uncontrollable bliss that she had never experienced before. The feeling, yearning, for this immense pleasure must slowly invade her thoughts once again. There would surely be a battle in her mind between not wanting to commit the sin of adultery again and wanting to enjoy the sexual ecstasy she enjoyed once more. If in that battle if lust is to prevail then the sexual joy she enjoys now must be something unforgettable. Therefore, it is essential that he be very patient in his lovemaking now. “””
Love is associated with well being and care of partner. It is sacrifice. From his experience, Prabhu understood, Meera will repaint post copulation when alone. Accordingly he planned to prolong foreplay to win over Meera’s morality.
The apt and skill with which Prabhu performed foreplay, clearly indicates his enormous experience. He must have experimented many times to perfect it. We all know, just bookish knowledge cannot make anyone expert in this field. Also Meera is not novice in sex. To charm a woman with year of sexual experience requires expertise. This clearly indicates Prabhu’s involvement with multiple women. Definitely he did not love all of them unless we define lust is also love.
By nature Prabhu is a womanizer.
What happened in Prabhu’s house on that fateful day does not require much imagination. He was tormented by his parents. He was forbidden to contact Meera in future and ordered to leave country for good after marrying his Mama’s daughter.
Prabhu had few options:
1. Accept everything as ordered disposing Meera completely.
2. Accept everything as ordered and secretly revive liaison with Meera in near future.
3. Leave for Gulf without marriage and plan future steps
4. Vehemently reject the proposal and express solidarity for love.
If Prabhu had loved Meera, he could have opted for 3rd or 4th option. He opted first.
Now Prabhu is a modern independent youth, settled in Gulf does not care for morality. He could not face his parents. Suddenly he understood values, morality etc. Is it acceptable? Definitely not. Basically he does not have the courage to face the society and family. Under pressure from family he crumbled, accepted everything. Under similar circumstances, people normally revolt when they are in love. At least people give a try and he had safe alternative options.
This clearly indicates, Prabhu is of a spineless coward character. And selfish also. This will be clearer next.
Prabhu surrendered to Saravana next day and accepting everything as his fault. See how his appearance was:
.”””” The building stood there lonely and abandoned as usual. I entered in and as I passed a few pillars I saw Prabu sitting on the ground dejected, leaning against a pillar. I was surprised at how he looked. Can a man become so broken in a single day? Hair completely unkempt, face smeared in grime, crumpled shirt drenched in sweat .. was this the same man who always used to have a confident on his face.””””
Prabhu suddenly departed after marriage without informing Meera. Prabhu got married within a span of two days with his Mama’s daughter. How Prabhu can be forced to marry so suddenly? Why did he agree? Was he really forced? I have a doubt.
First: If he had any attachment with Meera, he definitely would have tried to avoid marriage to find alternatives.
Second: He would have left for Gulf without marriage.
Third: He could have consulted Meera taking her into confidence. Al least he could have phoned her.
No, he did nothing like above. He was not confined in house. He could find time to meet Saravana but could not phone Meera. All of a sudden he understands the value of morality. He found it is not ethical to contact Meera as advised by his parents. He loved Meera so much that, he deserted her without informing his submission, letting her at the mercy of society, knowing very well, how society will react on Meera once truth is revealed and what will be consequences. Even a smell will be enough. His acts only suits to cowards. He behaved like cheap escapist in most selfish way. You can say, he is very clever.
Prabhu got married within a span of two days with his Mama’s daughter means a close relative. Definitely Mama’s family were not informed about Prabhu’s extravaganza. How Mama’s family and very particularly Mama’s daughter were convinced for so sudden marriage unless some proposal was already active. I am convinced, the marriage did not happen on impulse but it was well planned. Only it was advanced due to circumstances. Also taking wife to overseas require completion of some formalities. I conclude Prabhu was not forced into marriage. It was pre-decided, but Prabhu hid the fact to seduce Meera with false love and to continue his liaison. He was going to desert her. Only it hastened by his bad luck! He never imagined he will be caught.
He had physical relationship with multiple women. Even before immediate marriage, he seduced and established physical relationship with Meera. So, it is not expected Prabhu will abstain from his quest of extra marital relationship. Women are nothing but sex object for him. He will continue same at every opportunity until heavily punished for offence. Only obstacle will be his wife.
He was never attached to Meera Psychologically. For him Meera was nothing but a sex object. Even considering he was forced to marry and leave country by his parents at gun point, nothing stopped him contacting Meera subsequently. If he had love for Meera, he definitely would have contacted her to find out her well being and tried to specify her. After sensing Prabhu’s absence for a reasonable time, Meera also must have phoned him which he cleverly avoided. They made enough calls to remember the numbers.
It was not unknown to him that even a slight exposure will force Meera to commit suicide. So Prabhu loved Meera so much that he did not even bother to push her to death. Actually he had no interest on Meera as a whole except for sex. He is cleaver enough not to complicate his life further. He understands very well the difference between occasional sex without any responsibility and shoulder complete responsibility.
So Prabhu is a character of absolute selfishness. They never sacrifice anything for others without specific personal goal. They can go to any extent to fulfil their self pleasure. At the same time, they are normally very coward and spineless.
My conclusion:
Prabhu will never show any interest on Meera in future. More risk and little gain. Even if Meera (against all odds and not likely) be able to re-establish the relationship, shortly, she will find herself dumped into dustbin once she loose her charm as there is no reciprocating emotional attachment.
My assumptions are:
1. So far the story has not deviated from reality and in future will not deviate.
2. Normally the behaviour of characters is influenced by their motive and self value unless forced upon. There can be temporary short term discourse from path by the influence of sudden emotional burst.
3. The basic characteristics of a person do never get a sea change. Apparent changes will reverse with slightest opportunity. A person with crocked mentality will remain so and vice versa.
4. Whenever a character visits oneself in memory, character speaks the truth. After all you can never deceive yourself concisely.
I believe:
1. I am not moral security officer and have no inclination to dictate which is correct or wrong. Based on circumstantial evidences, I will try to reason the way characters may behave in future.
2. In no way I am trying or will try to influence author from his judgement about future of this story.
I request readers to add or correct me with reason of course:
Prabhu:
He has slept with many.
By seeing Meera for first time, the only think surfaced in his brain is how to make her a prey. He lusted over her and planned how to seduce her. At that instant, there was no love.
“”Prabu was very happy because he knew that he would have no trouble getting her introduction. From the first day he saw Meera, he would be troubled by her in his dreams. Prabu had from the very beginning been friendly with an ulterior intention in his mind. He was vehement in his mind that he must have Meera at least one day. Prabu was not without experience in sex. So far he had had sexual relationship with two women but this was the first time he was having desire for a married woman.
That she was his friend’s wife made him both happy and at the same time uneasy. Happy that because she was wife of a friend, he would easily get to know her and at the same time uneasy because that would mean he intended to seduce such a woman. Friendship was a very cherished relationship. This would be betrayal of the trust on which friendship is built.””
For Prabhu, morality is luxury with no value. Otherwise, he would not have seduced Meera knowing very well she is wife of his friend. Even after successfully seducing Meera, while he was mating her for first time, he was planning how to make it a regular affair.
“””Prabu’s intention was that this should not be a one time sexual mating. He wanted to enjoy this delightful body again and again. He fully realised that even though she was in sexual delirium at present and that this would be very enjoyable for her, her guilt would come back in full force when she was alone again after he had left her. She would feel mortified that she had committed a great sin by engaging in this adulterous copulation. The thought would make her cry in agony when she was alone. She would definitely be determined to end this with this first unfortunate (for her) coitus.
So, it was important that he drowned her in uncontrollable bliss that she had never experienced before. The feeling, yearning, for this immense pleasure must slowly invade her thoughts once again. There would surely be a battle in her mind between not wanting to commit the sin of adultery again and wanting to enjoy the sexual ecstasy she enjoyed once more. If in that battle if lust is to prevail then the sexual joy she enjoys now must be something unforgettable. Therefore, it is essential that he be very patient in his lovemaking now. “””
Love is associated with well being and care of partner. It is sacrifice. From his experience, Prabhu understood, Meera will repaint post copulation when alone. Accordingly he planned to prolong foreplay to win over Meera’s morality.
The apt and skill with which Prabhu performed foreplay, clearly indicates his enormous experience. He must have experimented many times to perfect it. We all know, just bookish knowledge cannot make anyone expert in this field. Also Meera is not novice in sex. To charm a woman with year of sexual experience requires expertise. This clearly indicates Prabhu’s involvement with multiple women. Definitely he did not love all of them unless we define lust is also love.
By nature Prabhu is a womanizer.
What happened in Prabhu’s house on that fateful day does not require much imagination. He was tormented by his parents. He was forbidden to contact Meera in future and ordered to leave country for good after marrying his Mama’s daughter.
Prabhu had few options:
1. Accept everything as ordered disposing Meera completely.
2. Accept everything as ordered and secretly revive liaison with Meera in near future.
3. Leave for Gulf without marriage and plan future steps
4. Vehemently reject the proposal and express solidarity for love.
If Prabhu had loved Meera, he could have opted for 3rd or 4th option. He opted first.
Now Prabhu is a modern independent youth, settled in Gulf does not care for morality. He could not face his parents. Suddenly he understood values, morality etc. Is it acceptable? Definitely not. Basically he does not have the courage to face the society and family. Under pressure from family he crumbled, accepted everything. Under similar circumstances, people normally revolt when they are in love. At least people give a try and he had safe alternative options.
This clearly indicates, Prabhu is of a spineless coward character. And selfish also. This will be clearer next.
Prabhu surrendered to Saravana next day and accepting everything as his fault. See how his appearance was:
.”””” The building stood there lonely and abandoned as usual. I entered in and as I passed a few pillars I saw Prabu sitting on the ground dejected, leaning against a pillar. I was surprised at how he looked. Can a man become so broken in a single day? Hair completely unkempt, face smeared in grime, crumpled shirt drenched in sweat .. was this the same man who always used to have a confident on his face.””””
Prabhu suddenly departed after marriage without informing Meera. Prabhu got married within a span of two days with his Mama’s daughter. How Prabhu can be forced to marry so suddenly? Why did he agree? Was he really forced? I have a doubt.
First: If he had any attachment with Meera, he definitely would have tried to avoid marriage to find alternatives.
Second: He would have left for Gulf without marriage.
Third: He could have consulted Meera taking her into confidence. Al least he could have phoned her.
No, he did nothing like above. He was not confined in house. He could find time to meet Saravana but could not phone Meera. All of a sudden he understands the value of morality. He found it is not ethical to contact Meera as advised by his parents. He loved Meera so much that, he deserted her without informing his submission, letting her at the mercy of society, knowing very well, how society will react on Meera once truth is revealed and what will be consequences. Even a smell will be enough. His acts only suits to cowards. He behaved like cheap escapist in most selfish way. You can say, he is very clever.
Prabhu got married within a span of two days with his Mama’s daughter means a close relative. Definitely Mama’s family were not informed about Prabhu’s extravaganza. How Mama’s family and very particularly Mama’s daughter were convinced for so sudden marriage unless some proposal was already active. I am convinced, the marriage did not happen on impulse but it was well planned. Only it was advanced due to circumstances. Also taking wife to overseas require completion of some formalities. I conclude Prabhu was not forced into marriage. It was pre-decided, but Prabhu hid the fact to seduce Meera with false love and to continue his liaison. He was going to desert her. Only it hastened by his bad luck! He never imagined he will be caught.
He had physical relationship with multiple women. Even before immediate marriage, he seduced and established physical relationship with Meera. So, it is not expected Prabhu will abstain from his quest of extra marital relationship. Women are nothing but sex object for him. He will continue same at every opportunity until heavily punished for offence. Only obstacle will be his wife.
He was never attached to Meera Psychologically. For him Meera was nothing but a sex object. Even considering he was forced to marry and leave country by his parents at gun point, nothing stopped him contacting Meera subsequently. If he had love for Meera, he definitely would have contacted her to find out her well being and tried to specify her. After sensing Prabhu’s absence for a reasonable time, Meera also must have phoned him which he cleverly avoided. They made enough calls to remember the numbers.
It was not unknown to him that even a slight exposure will force Meera to commit suicide. So Prabhu loved Meera so much that he did not even bother to push her to death. Actually he had no interest on Meera as a whole except for sex. He is cleaver enough not to complicate his life further. He understands very well the difference between occasional sex without any responsibility and shoulder complete responsibility.
So Prabhu is a character of absolute selfishness. They never sacrifice anything for others without specific personal goal. They can go to any extent to fulfil their self pleasure. At the same time, they are normally very coward and spineless.
My conclusion:
Prabhu will never show any interest on Meera in future. More risk and little gain. Even if Meera (against all odds and not likely) be able to re-establish the relationship, shortly, she will find herself dumped into dustbin once she loose her charm as there is no reciprocating emotional attachment.
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