Romance An Old Debt has to be Paid..by salir

[RCF]

Few more questions and story is getting more interesting. Will take a break after this for Thanksgiving.

This episode is after first encounter between Meena and Murad and its very erotic and entertaining.

“Meena, I am not jealous, you have to let the nature play his game. You are not responsible to correct all the missteps and errors in this world, not even when you are responsible for emotional setbacks around you, or because of your behavior. Let the young boys and old men taste the bitterness of letting down and disappointment! This is the life, you win sometime, but you lose often... It is normal. If somebody falls in love with you, this is not your problem, as long as you are not in love with him. Do you understand me?”

I felt this is so wrong and you thinking she is actually caring about him is ridiculous. Your wife is far more perceptive in thinking repercussions than you were and to top it she did the right thing. Because there will be consequences to your games and she doesn't want Murad to be victim and you want it to be left to the fate. What if Murad loves her and gets heart broken and wants revenge later? or even worse commits suicide thinking about her and knowing he could never get her. Maybe there is more to this statement later in the story but as of now what I read I felt this is wrong.

[Lollobionda]

Thank you for your reply. Sorry to drag you to those memories back again. The reason I needed to know is because you could have lost her that day due to your foolishness. Despite knowing you were part of that whole mess you blamed her singularly and left the house. So wanted to make a point that you were incredibly lucky that day. 
I keep saying this in all the stories I have been interested on this forum whether they are fiction or real events..that Love and Lust are two different entities and never should cross lines against each other. If the person who you love can provide the satisfaction and balance the scale then your lust will not be tested for eternity but if fate intertwines and decides that you have 3rd person able to imbalance that scale and provide the passion and lust that is missing then Lust and Love cross each other. I am glad you saw that your wife loved you more than anything and decided to play along and took back control of your life.

~ RCF

I see it differently and argue that it was not Nadir's foolishness at the time that made him seriously
consider divorce, but that he felt deeply violated in his personality and in his role as Meena's husband
'he was not seen as family and left OUT'.

When Meena was blackmailed by her uncle (which he heard the very first night!), Nadir expected her 
to talk to him about the blackmail. Because as a husband, he was/is HER MOST DEAR FAMILY MEMBER.

Since she (to this day, by the way!) did not respond to the blackmail with any clarity, Nadir did NOT feel
like a member of her family.
According to his (general) opinion, both families merge into one with the marriage.
Nadir saw it that Meena (perhaps unconsciously in hindsight) had not seeing him in HER family circle.

I think it was this disastrous step by Meena that Nadir still cannot let go of: 
Not quite being HER family and belonging to it ...

Meena had planned and initiated the deal with the classic car long before the crisis meeting and Nadir's
move out of the house they shared. The car had already been bought and just had to be delivered on
Nadir's birthday.

Rather, the letter was an expression of thanks and deep appreciation for the friendship they had shared
since childhood, for the time they had spent together and for the love they shared. 
The letter was perceived and honoured as such by Nadir...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

[RCF]

I see it differently and argue that it was not Nadir's foolishness at the time that made him seriously
consider divorce, but that he felt deeply violated in his personality and in his role as Meena's husband
'he was not seen as family and left OUT'.

When Meena was blackmailed by her uncle (which he heard the very first night!), Nadir expected her 
to talk to him about the blackmail. Because as a husband, he was/is HER MOST DEAR FAMILY MEMBER.

Since she (to this day, by the way!) did not respond to the blackmail with any clarity, Nadir did NOT feel
like a member of her family.
According to his (general) opinion, both families merge into one with the marriage.
Nadir saw it that Meena (perhaps unconsciously in hindsight) had not seeing him in HER family circle.

I think it was this disastrous step by Meena that Nadir still cannot let go of: 
Not quite being HER family and belonging to it ...

Meena had planned and initiated the deal with the classic car long before the crisis meeting and Nadir's
move out of the house they shared. The car had already been bought and just had to be delivered on
Nadir's birthday.

Rather, the letter was an expression of thanks and deep appreciation for the friendship they had shared
since childhood, for the time they had spent together and for the love they shared. 
The letter was perceived and honoured as such by Nadir...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

I see it in a different perspective or you can say other side of the coin.

Women always look up to two men in their life and they will do everything they can to keep up their honor. Her not revealing this to her husband or her mother is to protect her father's image and their families reputation. Irrespective of how Nadir will see the news she could not bear to reveal it and could probably not bear the thought that Nadir will think that her father is a fraud. If it was other way round and Nadir is caught in a scam if there was a choice she would never reveal it to her parents because she would not bear the thought of her parents looking down on her husband. Same way she feels about her father.

She will obviously reveal it one day we will see in which circumstances. As far as my comment on being foolish and I stand by it because knowing she loves him and also knowing he could have stopped it Nadir chose to remain silent and give choice to her and to this day he did not reveal how he saw them and when he decided to take path of voyeuristic nature. It was clear from the notes that the moment he heard the uncle's proposal he expected Meena to come for his help but if she did not , wouldn't it make husband's duty to protect his wife? He did not take that option rather chose to enjoy their affair.

Also my question for friend Lollo: If you feel for not revealing a family secret is worth a divorce then what should be solution for a husband who spy on his wife with cameras all around the house. its a breach of trust and marriage.

~ RCF

[Blackdick11]

RCF made a valid point.
If keeping a family secret is considered serious enough to justify a divorce, then spying on wife by installing cameras throughout the house—regardless of the motive—is undeniably a breach of trust as well.

I think both actions—keeping a secret and spying—are breaches of trust, the scale and intent differ.

Now, I'm eagerly awaiting to see Lollo perspective on this.

[Salir]

RCF made a valid point.
If keeping a family secret is considered serious enough to justify a divorce, then spying on wife by installing cameras throughout the house—regardless of the motive—is undeniably a breach of trust as well.

I think both actions—keeping a secret and spying—are breaches of trust, the scale and intent differ.

Now, I'm eagerly awaiting to see Lollo perspective on this.

Since I am personally involved in this story, I am not the one who can judge...


On the other hand, for me. human behavior is a reaction, no matter how and where we start looking…

Whether what someone does, is or was wrong (his reaction) depends on the action that caused it...


I want just to say that I love this discussion...

[RCF]

Since I am personally involved in this story, I am not the one who can judge...


On the other hand, for me. human behavior is a reaction, no matter how and where we start looking…

Whether what someone does, is or was wrong (his reaction) depends on the action that caused it...


I want just to say that I love this discussion...

Thanks Salir.

Agreed everything that we see in life and this applies to all of us is based on our choices. 

Meena chose to keep it a secret and her choice means sacrificing her purity to her uncle though she has come to enjoy it eventually. Lets say for a sec if her uncle is not that great in bed nor he has enormous size to satisfy women at his age 60 which is quiet common, even then she would have done what she has done may be not with same enthusiasm but still as a duty and you might not have felt the jealousy to that extent.

Her choice also has other consequences like you discovered a side to you that you have never known existed. Eventually if you both believe that love survives despite your choices then you both are fine and that's exactly happened later. You both had some of the good times after Mansi episode and an open relationship from Meena's side with your consent. As long as you both are happy with the choices then stick to your promises then all these affairs doesn't matter.

My questions are only valid for point in time as am still reading the story and only to understand your thought process at that time. I was not blaming you for any consequences but merely pointing it out that all the events that happened were not only because of choices made by Meena, there were choices made by you too that impacted your lives.

~ RCF

[Salir]

Thanks Salir.

Agreed everything that we see in life and this applies to all of us is based on our choices. 

Meena chose to keep it a secret and her choice means sacrificing her purity to her uncle though she has come to enjoy it eventually. Lets say for a sec if her uncle is not that great in bed nor he has enormous size to satisfy women at his age 60 which is quiet common, even then she would have done what she has done may be not with same enthusiasm but still as a duty and you might not have felt the jealousy to that extent.

Her choice also has other consequences like you discovered a side to you that you have never known existed. Eventually if you both believe that love survives despite your choices then you both are fine and that's exactly happened later. You both had some of the good times after Mansi episode and an open relationship from Meena's side with your consent. As long as you both are happy with the choices then stick to your promises then all these affairs doesn't matter.

My questions are only valid for point in time as am still reading the story and only to understand your thought process at that time. I was not blaming you for any consequences but merely pointing it out that all the events that happened  were not only because of choices made by Meena, there were choices made by you too that impacted your lives.

~ RCF

I am completely with you, my friend...

I took and take responsibility for my behavior and actions one hundred percent, and my M. has never accused me of anything... never...

We both discovered our inner desire for more pleasure and physical satisfaction only with the Mansour story, so far for me (and then also for M.) it was and is fine and completely okay.

But what discovered and I have been saying in recent episodes is, how common and sensitive the topic is and can lead to disaster if you are not careful, if you do not keep your egoism in check, and if you do not try to understand the other person and above all if you do not own up to your mistakes...

[Lollobionda]

RCF made a valid point.
If keeping a family secret is considered serious enough to justify a divorce, then spying on wife by installing cameras throughout the house—regardless of the motive—is undeniably a breach of trust as well.

I think both actions—keeping a secret and spying—are breaches of trust, the scale and intent differ.

Now, I'm eagerly awaiting to see Lollo perspective on this.

The blackmail of Meena by Mansi affected both Meena (in the first place) and Nadir (afterwards). 

It was a family affair (and so it is in real life, because it's called MARRIAGE UNION). 
Nadir expected Meena to involve him in order to find a possible solution together, to get both powers
under control and to deal with the situation without making too much of a fuss.
Once it was clear that Meena was not going to involve him, he felt the need (my reasoning!) to set up
cameras to see what would happen next.

That was the motivation to install the cameras...

Another reason for the installation was, among other things ... that Meena had mixed sleeping pills into
Nadir's drink so that she and Mansi could ‘indulge their desires in peace without being disturbed by Nadir’.

... And he really wanted to know what happened between Meena and Mansi when he lay in bed and slept.

But over time he came to enjoy the fact that his hidden desire to see Meena with other men was 
awakened and satisfied in this way.
... And so Nadir became a voyeur, recording Meena's encounters with Mansi and also with the gardener's
nephew Murad (later, of course, with his consent), which took place in his absence (or in the guest house, 
where he could not observe them), in order to watch them later.

Ultimately, I am firmly convinced that if Meena had told Nadir about the blackmail attempt the very next
day and let him in on it, neither the installation of the cameras nor the voyeur Nadir would have happened...

Conclusion:

I am very glad that Meena did not tell Nadir about being blackmailed.
Otherwise we would not have this great, unique and exciting story.
Thank you Meena ...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

[RCF]

The blackmail of Meena by Mansi affected both Meena (in the first place) and Nadir (afterwards). 

It was a family affair (and so it is in real life, because it's called MARRIAGE UNION). 
Nadir expected Meena to involve him in order to find a possible solution together, to get both powers
under control and to deal with the situation without making too much of a fuss.
Once it was clear that Meena was not going to involve him, he felt the need (my reasoning!) to set up
cameras to see what would happen next.

That was the motivation to install the cameras...

Another reason for the installation was, among other things ... that Meena had mixed sleeping pills into
Nadir's drink so that she and Mansi could ‘indulge their desires in peace without being disturbed by Nadir’.

... And he really wanted to know what happened between Meena and Mansi when he lay in bed and slept.

But over time he came to enjoy the fact that his hidden desire to see Meena with other men was 
awakened and satisfied in this way.
... And so Nadir became a voyeur, recording Meena's encounters with Mansi and also with the gardener's
nephew Murad (later, of course, with his consent), which took place in his absence (or in the guest house, 
where he could not observe them), in order to watch them later.

Ultimately, I am firmly convinced that if Meena had told Nadir about the blackmail attempt the very next
day and let him in on it, neither the installation of the cameras nor the voyeur Nadir would have happened...

Conclusion:

I am very glad that Meena did not tell Nadir about being blackmailed.
Otherwise we would not have this great, unique and exciting story.
Thank you Meena ...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

I partially agree my friend. I have my reasons for it.

Two people made two choices that day and its not only Meena. It was Nadir too.

"Nadir expected Meena to involve him in order to find a possible solution together, to get both powers
under control and to deal with the situation without making too much of a fuss.
Once it was clear that Meena was not going to involve him, he felt the need (my reasoning!) to set up
cameras to see what would happen next."

Nadir setting up camera's is not only to keep an eye on his wife but also for his pleasures and it was not an overtime thing, it was decided in next couple of days. It was decided the moment he saw Mansi kissing and feeling up of Meena near dining table that day. He stopped himself on the stairs that night and got excited by watching them and felt his other side. 

"Ultimately, I am firmly convinced that if Meena had told Nadir about the blackmail attempt the very next
day and let him in on it, neither the installation of the cameras nor the voyeur Nadir would have happened..."

Why should this be one dimensional? Why cannot Nadir the very next morning tell Meena that he heard everything between her and Mansi and she is not alone and he can help? Isn't it a choice of Nadir to wait and see what happens? Isn't this his marriage and his wife who was crying that night? Yes she enjoyed later but that night Meena was broken to see her uncle blackmailing her , she cried out all night and Nadir did not comfort her. The reason why I brought camera's as a trust breach is because Nadir had a choice and he didn't take it.

Ultimately yes it's her mistake not to seek her husband's help and also its Nadir's mistake not to offer help the very next day irrespective of whether his wife would confess or not.

~RCF

[RCF]

My statements about Nadir's personality at the beginning of my answer above are exaggerated and sacrastic.
Nadir is certainly not a cuckold in the true sense of the word...
 
Nadir is someone who has (or beleives to have) a unique rose. He loves to give HIS (for him extraordinary) flower, 
his rose, under his observation and control, someone  to look at and enjoy, or at most to smell and enjoy, nothing more, no possession...
He is someone who wants to show you what unimaginably excellent possessions he has...

Yes, he is not a cuckold (in classical terms), and certainly not someone who seeks humiliation... On the contrary, he needs and seeks recognition, 
he enjoys it when one admires and worships his rose, adors its aroma…
And in the end the other one is jealous that the rose belongs to Nadir...

That gives Nadir highest satisfaction, the greatest fulfillment...
that's what he's looking for...

Enjoy,
Salir

For this precise reason I call you selfish MR Nadir. I have not read remaining episodes due to Thanksgiving but I only read until you left the house with suitcase. I felt like you are most selfish guy.

Mr Nadir wants a rose but women are like roses but not a rose. She can think,feel, has strengths , weaknesses and also aspirations. In fiction if Rose can think too it won't like being controlled as a toy. Nadir wants his wife to play his game and also in his control since the mistake done by her with Mansi, but did he think one sec that his games has consequences. A person can get closer to some one with out their will when they get intimate.

Every human being the way they are designed by god like certain people and when are closer to them they connect. Like our Meena mam like certain personalities who are dominant, aggressive yet caring , attentive and masculine in nature(Not necessarily macho) and when they are thrown into games with them they slide involuntarily. Mansi and Jalal are not so different in nature and I think that's what brought her closer to Jalal in such a short time. Imagine her spending quality time with him, she could easily fall in love with him if there is no Nadir in her life. Yet she chose Nadir and explained in clear terms to Jalal how her heart is not hers anymore and it has never been hers since she grew up from 9 yr old.

I came to respect her a lot. You are indeed lucky Nadir and so is she, you both belong to each other. I will complete rest of the episode later tonight.

~RCF

[Salir]

For this precise reason I call you selfish MR Nadir. I have not read remaining episodes due to Thanksgiving but I only read until you left the house with suitcase. I felt like you are most selfish guy.

Mr Nadir wants a rose but women are like roses but not a rose. She can think,feel, has strengths , weaknesses and also aspirations. In fiction if Rose can think too it won't like being controlled as a toy. Nadir wants his wife to play his game and also in his control since the mistake done by her with Mansi, but did he think one sec that his games has consequences. A person can get closer to some one with out their will when they get intimate.

Every human being the way they are designed by god like certain people and when are closer to them they connect. Like our Meena mam like certain personalities who are dominant, aggressive yet caring , attentive and masculine in nature(Not necessarily macho) and when they are thrown into games with them they slide involuntarily. Mansi and Jalal are not so different in nature and I think that's what brought her closer to Jalal in such a short time. Imagine her spending quality time with him, she could easily fall in love with him if there is no Nadir in her life. Yet she chose Nadir and explained in clear terms to Jalal how her heart is not hers anymore and it has never been hers since she grew up from 9 yr old.

I came to respect her a lot. You are indeed lucky Nadir and so is she, you both belong to each other. I will complete rest of the episode later tonight.

~RCF

My friend
It is obvious that one can only posses and own a thing (e.g. a rose) and not a person, not even another living being ...
if you love someone and think that he or she loves you too, then you posses her or his love, it means you two belong together...
Is this egoistisch? If yes, then millions of lovers in human history, who belong togerther are egoisten and selfisch!

I would like to draw your attention to a dialogue between Nadir and Jalal about Meena (from part: Pond Master 7):
(…..Jalal then turned his gaze to me and noticed that I am watching him.
I blinked briefly.
"We are men Doki, and the men love to look at beautiful women!” he
argued.
"Specially the ones as beautiful as Meena, I am used to it that other men
admire my wife and honestly that makes me proud," I said.
“Women generally, enjoy showing their interesting parts to men, not only
women but other living being and even the plants do this, naturally,
This is why the life goes on since many million years on the earth,” I
smiled and added, “I am personally, a leg man, I enjoy and admire the
legs of a beautiful woman, and my Meena has such...”. "Some women
dominate the men world with their legs, don't you think?" I laughed.
Jalal laughed and said," Damn, you're one lucky guy, Doki," he chuckled,
",to have such a beauty at home,".
"I don’t believe that I do have her, I have her love, I think," I argued,
"She doesn’t belong to somebody, yes, she is a part of me, but we are
only one in spirit, at least I hope so, otherwise we are independent to do
what we like, just as we are physically separated."
“You mean, she is free as a fairy?" he asked and smiled.
I smiled back and said, “yes, it is nice to be free and to enjoy this freedom,
aren’t you also the opinion?”
“Yes, it is very nice, also spacious from you,” He replied.
After this statement about Meena, I thought maybe I had raised his hopes
too much.
Then I tried to put it into perspective so that he wouldn’t dream and
fantasize too much, "There is one point I like to say in passing, Jalal, " I
said, "Everybody can try to approach her, Meena can press anybody to
her heart, and if this happens, I mean if she allows someone to stay in her
heart, he can experience happiness, even heaven,".
After a short pause in which I tried to observe his reaction, I added, „but if
somebody tries to push her to anything, maybe he’ll be shortly proud of
himself, but that was it, it will be his last try, believe me," then I
emphasized, “nobody should try the last train to nowhere,"……)
 
I look at Meena as apart of me but for sure as an independent part.
 
Everyone is born free and should be free to make their own decisions in life...
 
Meena saw me for the first time when she was nine, but only saw me, she could have seen me when she was 4 or 5years old!
 
She fell in love with me when she was 13 or 14, everyone is entitled to that, including her, right?
 
If she turns away from me today at 45 and falls in love with someone else, she is also right.
I have to accept and respect that...
 
She will write something about that soon, and also about other points that have been left
out here recently, she told me...

[RCF]

You misunderstood me my friend.
I am not doubting anyone's free will or love here. Its obviously for all readers that you both are madly in love with each other. When one says we can only possess their love then its true but at the same time same person says you have to play games , seduce men and wrap them in your charms , play seductive games so that you and I can have passionate time later then its bound to bite sometimes.

You have been harsh and totally unreasonable with her when you cam back from one week trip. Did you really believe for one sec that she would continue to hide her actions while you were out? Its clear to us that she was processing the events and coming to terms on how to explain to you what happened with out hurting you. Even when you observed her many times secretly before when she was with other men you patiently waited for her to come to you to confess but in this case you only gave her one night and next morning you called it quits. You know why I was certain that she would come to you and tell you everything, its because of this thing that she said to Jalal

"Then Meena stood up. ", now it is high time, I have to go home, my husband
is coming soon and I have to sort out a few things at home, ".
Jala thought for a moment then said, "I understand Meena and still I don't
want to lose you.
"
She wants to sort it out meaning she wants to discuss with you why she has made the mistake of getting close to Jalal despite it being your game which initiated it. She would have confessed in a day or two. Haven't you hidden that you have been spying on her all the time, Isn't it something in general women consider breach of their love, what would have you done if she leaves you for putting cameras all around the house and call it you do not trust me and where there is no trust there is no marriage?
Like I said before when you play with fire it is bound to get burnt at least fingers if not heart. In this case she controlled her actions and firmly said no to Jalal at the end despite her connection with him and this is all by herself when you are not there and it shows she in her heart always loved you and only you.

~RCF

[Salir]

Here is Meena writing:

Yes, I am a Woman,  but I do not let myself be taken advantage of and I do not sacrifice myself because I am a woman!



There are certainly still millions of women in the world who are disadvantaged and exploited, no question about it…



But please, you are speaking about me! I have achieved a lot in my life and in this large human family that many men can only dream of, and only my hard work and clear thinking helped me and not my beautiful legs, my big breasts or my feminine behavior.


I am happy and proud of my life and my decisions, I have no sense of shame and I don't want to hide anything. Why should I?


With regard to my private life and Nadir, there were misunderstandings from time to time and they were resolved through our coming together and love.


What can be corrected, but your selfishness prevents it, leads to suffering and you should suffer from it!


I have met a few men in my life, but it was always only physical.


That's right and everyone prefers a certain ideal personality with certain qualities, e.g. I like men who are a bit older, a bit dominant (not aggressive, literally), more of a leader type (also and especially in certain moments!) and at the same time caring. Yes, that's true but I still emphasize that it only concerns the physical part.


My love belongs to one and it will stay that way.


Not even Mansour had qualities that made me fall in love with him as my man! That was just physical and that's it!


I like Jalal (still!) a lot, but if Nadir gives a sign that he doesn't like it, I will have no contact with Jalal (or anyone else) for the rest of my life.


Please don't get the wrong idea! Not because Nadir controls my life and personality, but because I want to continue to have a happy and understanding life with him.


And one more thing about Murad.

I didn’t think that he could be a victim if I had a sexual relation with him.

in this situation, a victim can only be a child or an animal! So, someone who is not mentally developed or cannot think clearly an be a vivtim. 
I didn't really need to worry about a young man as intelligent as Murad! He should have known what he was doing and he did.

Yes, Nadir, as always, was afraid that I would fall in love with the boy and expressed himself like that.

 

Now, when I think about the past years, it amuses me very much!

Poor Nadir, always takes one step and then comes into his thoughts!

Maybe that's why I find him so cute...

But he is my MAN and I am his ROSE!

 

Kiss you all,

M.
 

[Lollobionda]

First of all, I would like to thank you, Meena, for these clarifying and courageous words 
(because not many women and not many men have this courage to set out and commit 
to what they have formulated for themselves as a philosophy of life...).

Thank you for that...

For me personally, love is like water in its properties, which is made up of two different elements, 
with one element burning and the other exploding. In their properties, as found in nature, they 
have nothing in common, but only when they combine in the form of molecules does life arise in 
these two completely different gases.
When they are separated, they retain their properties, because neither is lost in the other.

... And so is perfect love.
It unites two different individuals, of different sexes, and makes of them a unity in which they 
retain their own characters. 

Neither of them is dominated by the other ...

Like water, which sometimes freezes and solidifies into ice or evaporates as a gas, it returns to its 
original state as soon as the circumstances and conditions are right.
... Love is like that too, with its emotions and feelings, its highs and lows, its sharing and renouncing, 
its giving and taking, its respect and understanding ... 
But the ‘shared’ life only arises when two ‘I's’ have become a ‘WE’...

What I have read so far in this story shows me that Meena and Nadir have merged into a ‘WE’ in all areas of life... 
Meena has summed it up in her interpretation.

I am really looking forward to reading how the two of them manage to free themselves from this ‘frozen’ mood so 
that they can enjoy life together to the full again...


In this sense
All the best

Lollobionda

[RCF]

Completed all episodes and caught up with the story and truly its one of its kind and If I think about it lot of answers to my questions in another story lies in here with this beautiful couple. Nadir and Meena show that, true communication between the couple whether its agreement or disagreement can solve so many problems.

Mitra shedding light on the problems and clearing Nadir's doubts has been a true Journey in itself, rare to find such women. Looking forward to further updates on how Meena and Nadir reconciled. I would be lying if i say I did not think Jalal would be ideal replacement for Mansi that couple has talked earlier. Would that happen is yet to be seen.

Please update soon!

~ RCF

[Shakeelaluv.]

Excellent.... waiting for next installments. Kindly update

[Salir]

Here speaks Meena: 
I would also like to clarify something here... 

As a man or woman, no matter how many contacts, emotional or physical, there are several levels that are classifiable and conceivable for me in terms of emotions and feelings:

Hating someone, not liking someone, being neutral towards someone, liking someone, being fond of someone, being in love with someone, and loving someone.

Up until the last level, physical contact could play a role. The last level is only and only emotional and mental. 
You can love someone but not strive for physical/erotic contact with him or her... Like your parents, siblings, etc...

It took a long time until I taught my life partner, Nadir, this classification!

For me, as he puts it, from level 3 onwards, liking someone is already the person in my heart, but how far and deep he or she can go is another story. 

In my life I was fond of not many, being in love just in certain relationships and moments (this stage can last for a while, briefly or a little longer) with very few but really loving someone who was not my blood relative, to whom I was physically attracted too, was and is only one, my Nadir.
That is what I wanted to emphasize.

Kiss you all,
M.

[Hornytamilan23]

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[Bakchod Londa]

Here speaks Meena: 
I would also like to clarify something here... 

As a man or woman, no matter how many contacts, emotional or physical, there are several levels that are classifiable and conceivable for me in terms of emotions and feelings:

Hating someone, not liking someone, being neutral towards someone, liking someone, being fond of someone, being in love with someone, and loving someone.

Up until the last level, physical contact could play a role. The last level is only and only emotional and mental. 
You can love someone but not strive for physical/erotic contact with him or her... Like your parents, siblings, etc...

It took a long time until I taught my life partner, Nadir, this classification!

For me, as he puts it, from level 3 onwards, liking someone is already the person in my heart, but how far and deep he or she can go is another story. 

In my life I was fond of not many, being in love just in certain relationships and moments (this stage can last for a while, briefly or a little longer) with very few but really loving someone who was not my blood relative, to whom I was physically attracted too, was and is only one, my Nadir.
That is what I wanted to emphasize.

Kiss you all,
M.

thanks for the clarification and this post is truly a reflection of your deep understanding of emotions and love.

[Salir]

We are happy that the number of views of Meena's story has risen to 120,000.

We know that the stories which are titled as "adultery", are much more interesting for som readers...

For a story that is not necessarily just erotic and describes itself as romance, this is a great success.

We, me and my wife, M. thank you all.

Soon, in one or two days, come new updates which are not so short (I say this for those who complain 

about short updates!).


Thank you very much friends,


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Salir and Meena