Another cucky husband asked me this question in hangout
How can an Indian wife overcome guilt and fear while being in a cuckold relationship with her husband?
Cuck hubby has got a prominent role here.
He has to reassure the wife that “ If there is anyone whom you are answerable - Its Me. Don’t care this shitty hypocritical Society / world.”
Even as per ***** Epics, after a girl is married, her husband is her god. If her husband is asking her to do it and that too Happily and blissfully, I don’t think you have anything guilty to feel about. The wife should do her self talk like this …
Am I cheating any one? - Obvious answer would be No.
Is My husband Ok with me being a bitch / being somebody else’s girl on bed - Perfectly Yes. In most of the cases its the Cuck hubby who insists on trying a new lifestyle. And moreover if the hubby is a real Cuck, He feels that BLISS when you are getting banged by the Bull.
You feel guilty when are you think you are doing a SIN. By SIN - it means No body ( None from the society) knows it except the trio or may be some other Bulls, if you have multiple partners. Guilt comes into the picture only when you think of your husband. Since in cuckolding, you are doing it with the knowledge of your hubby and with his full support and encouragement, you should not feel Guilty at all ..
Now coming to Fear. Fear is of Multiple types like:
What if the Bull is not a good person by ethics as in What if he blackmails you and your hubby.
Another type of fear could be What if any of our relatives / colleagues or friends Know about your lifestyle.
The other type could be fear of diseases like HIV or Some viral infections as there might be some trios, who are into Golden showers, drink the pee of the Bull, clean the commode after peeing etc. (as a part of cuckolding only and not forcefully)
Other type could be What if the wife and bull get emotionally attached. Again this is of various types like Every Bull and Wife get emotionally attached to some extent once they are physical. Point is what is the level of that emotional connection - Is it just that Bull and Wife feel extremely connected when they are together and forget it and carry on with their regular activities afterwards OR She wants the Bull to be like her husband at her place along with the hubby OR She wants the Bull by dumping her hubby and start a new relation.
Fear could be of the level of Humiliation and/or punishments given to the Cuck by the Bull and/or Cuckquean. Some Bulls put the Cuck into chastity and lock their genitals for days together.. that could be a problem.
My possible solutions to the scenarios are as under ( In the above serial)
You have to be very careful while chosing your Bull. In other words your thought process hould be like.. “Why would he ( The Bull) will Black mail us”. Usually it will be because of Financial reasons. Ascertain that he is financially sound or he is not greedy. Even if someone is financially sound, there is no end to greed. So, you have to confirm whether he is greedy about money.. Which can be found out only while talking to him. So talking to him should be through voice and video and not just chat. If the initial criteria like colour or physic or Dick size and any other financial criteria are met, I suggest you to go for a Physical meeting at some public coffee shop and get to know him directly. This is the only way you can find out about his genuineness. All the conditions like No Mobiles during the sessions can be drafted initially and make sure he is the right one for you. If not You always have an option of saying NO to him. While coming to a decision about the bull - Financial matter is one of the most important criteria. There are some bulls, infact most of them, charge for being a Bull ( to be precise they charge for acting as a Bull on Bed for the Cuck couple ) Unlike Me, where I expect ONLY my Travel, lodging and food are taken care off. They need not be judged for asking money for being a Bull. Because that might be their only source of income. Other Bulls like me, have their steady income from some other source and they are Bulls by passion or hobby. So Bulls like me don’t charge for being a Bull as that is a PASSION for me. So in a nut shell, get to know about the Bull very well before you get into this relationship as mostly these are long lasting relationships.
So, you have to be extremely secretive about it. You should not disclose it to anyone.. When I say anyone Not even to your Bestest buddies. If you have that confidence in you, go for this lifestyle else be ready to face consequences. Because I always believe that a secret between TWO is a secret. Else its not a secret anymore. Another most important things is Avoid outings like clubs / pubs or any public place with the Bull. Else, you never know.. World is Too small !!! you may encounter some one you know at a public place and you will be done with it.
With regard to diseases you have to be careful about diseases. Yes. Make the tests done if you wanna have it without condom. However I suggest you to go with Condom only. But even sometimes for me it will be almost impossible to go with Condom as I get tempted a lot. Oral is OK. Coming to Golden showers and Pee stuff, Golden showers - Is not a problem - If you just take a nice shower its all gone. But drinking the pee, you should make it it a point to drink some warm lemon water and / or any other Stomach cleansing drinks after you do that. I am very specific about pee drinking because I’ve been with couples who are made about having it. Its usually the Cucks, but i’ve been with some cuckqueans who are desperate to have it.
Emotional attachment should be very very clear at the beginning of the relationship only. You have to agree those terms at the inception. As I said there would be some level of emotional attachment b/w the Bull and the Wife. Its the duty of the trio to see that this does not cross the agreed levels which could disturb the marriage of the couple. I always tell my couples, Even if any one of us is not HAPPY with the relationship, at any point of time, because of whatsoever reason, lets end it. I feel there is no point in having a relationship that hurts one. There are lot many relationships like that outside the world of Cuckolding. That’s the one of the reasons we are here. So, Emotional attachment should be agreed and should be maintained all through not affecting the Happiness of the Trio.
I’ve written this point as one of the couple i’ve been with were saying they had a Bull earlier who was quite dominant off the bed also, and has put the husband into chastity by locking his genitals and it was done for almost a week or so. I was taken aback. Atleast in India, Its the first time I heard. So, Moral of the story is : Their selection of Bull was wrong. He was a local gunda kind of .. so they were not in a position to complaint as well. Well.. coming to this point, LEVEL OF HUMILIATION also needs to be agreed in the beginning. Some can be tried on the spot as we never know which one will click. But if it is really uncomfortable even after trying a couple of times, It should be withdrawn with mutual consent of the trio. There are some situations like the Wife can’t take the insult of his husband being humiliated so much and on the contrary the hubby cannot take the sight of his wife being treated as Slut like Belt spankings on the ass or Fucking her very badly or some extremely loud screaming during doggy or Anal… So all these should be agree at the inception.
Hope this answers your question. If you still have any questions ping me at apply2dreams in hangouts.
Happy Cuckolding
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