06-06-2023, 05:29 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-06-2023, 05:34 PM by Ibrahim339. Edited 2 times in total. Edited 2 times in total.)
According to Mark, it was my wife who herself initiated sex with them, but according to my wife, they forced her and manipulated her. There was a difference in their statements. However, I did not think it would be worthwhile to dig into that any further. It was not going to make much difference now. Shazia was still my wife. She is here with me living as a family with our children. Her behavior was convincing enough that she has broke contact with them and wants to remain in marriage with me. I only had to keep monitoring and maintain the trust between me and my wife. Also, I myself had witnessed Mark talking such things to my wife that was encouraging her to involve with him. He was somewhat manipulative and it could be now that he wanted to manipulate me also into it. Thinking of all this, I just put this matter aside and continued life with Shazia. I never again noticed her showing interest outside marriage. She never hid her phone from me or children. She was more transparent and trustworthy. At the same time, she turned out to be hot sexy slut in my bedroom.
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Although I found my wife sexy and desired to have sex with her, the thought of her body being desired by another man always amplified the excitement and desire. I would soon reach orgasm the moment Mark’s message passes my mind – “I want to fuck your wife again!”
Although I found my wife sexy and desired to have sex with her, the thought of her body being desired by another man always amplified the excitement and desire. I would soon reach orgasm the moment Mark’s message passes my mind – “I want to fuck your wife again!”
THE END OF VERSION 1
My perspective on the story and its conclusion in version 1:
The sanctity of a wife (woman) these days is not entirely the onus of the husband. The wife (woman) is also educated and equally knowledgeable to decide on her life and body. In fact, that is what women these days expect, isn't it? Do women want their husbands to control and decide for them? With such liberty expected, a woman also has to take her own responsibility over her morals and the husband cannot be blamed entirely. Just because a wife has an affair, the husband cannot be termed as "useless fucker." However, such is the attitude of several men who use such opportunities to show off themselves as a better man and husband. Instead of supporting true victims of bang and supporting suppressed women, and instead of fighting against men with such criminal attitude, such men are busy showing off and overpowering affected husbands within society. They try to gain their own benefits in the game of breaking someone's relationship, either money or sex whichever interests them, or at least show off and experience a sense of self-satisfaction thinking himself as a better man for the wife (not his own wife).
In the story, there is no event to suggest that the husband was irresponsible or not loving or caring towards his wife. Their life was normal before they came to Goa. He probably did everything a husband would do to his wife. The story also has his sexual encounters with his wife. If the wife had shown resistance and if he had seen her being forced, then there was a reason for him to pick up fight against Mark/Robert. However, in the story, the husband found the wife willingly participating in sex with them. Thus, it is necessary that he raise the issue with his wife and sort his own relationship with her more importantly. It is always not necessary that when a wife has an affair, it is because her husband is useless or impotent. The wife could be having different fantasies, different sexual appetite, may have some mental illness, or even may be carried away at some point in time of life without much thinking in such moments like it happened in the story. Of course, the husband witnessed the acts and did not stop or do anything at that moment. He probably loved her so much that it made him indecisive being shocked with her sudden change. It also did not happen over several days that he could decide on his action, but just the 2 days when he found her involved in sexual activity with Mark and Robert. He did not stop Mark/Robert initially but thought it was their culture and just remained social with them. Nevertheless, the husband did not exclude these factors and held himself equally responsibile for whatever happened. He also realized his mistakes and learned from it.
Shazia showed repentence to the husband's advantage (In reality, however, women will never accept their faults, at least not so easily and not so soon). Although she cheated on the husband, she was manipulated and carried away. She also ended up enjoying it since the experience was new and breathtaking for her. The events also gave her an opportunity to explore her limits of sexuality. Her sexual exploration was witnessed by the husband. This resulted in breaking down of the barriers between them and engaging themselves in wilder sex thereafter, bringing them much more closer to a more physically satisfying relationship. With sex still being a taboo in a socieity like ours, many husbands and wives do not open up their sexualities fully with each other even after several years of marriage. They keep it to themselves thinking what the husband may think or what the wife may think. When they find an external person offering something that can fulfill their fantasy and likeness, they get easily drifted at that time. They are more comfortable and free to reveal their inner self to a boyfriend/girlfriend than with their spouse, especially in arranged marriages.
Being in a place far from home and visiting a place like Goa, the couple intended to enjoy without any restrictions. They wanted to be free for some time away from family and they lost their do's and don'ts. Mark and Robert had this for their advantage, but the couple's love for each other brought them to realization when they actually became alone. They rectified themselves apologizing to each other. Marriage or divorce are neither just words nor simple events in life. These are life-changing events and should not be emotionally driven decisions. One must NOT decide to marry based on just one single event of love or being impressed by someone. One also must not choose to divorce based on one single event of hatred or dissatisfaction. There is more in the relationship of husband and wife besides sex. It must be tried to avoid divorce as much as possible weighing the pros and cons of it. If there is maturity, realization, and cooperation from both sides, nothing can be better than applying corrective measures and surviving the marriage. Divorce still is an option to choose, but it has to be the last resort and when the individual (husband or wife) is suffering in a toxic relationship of harassment, abuse, and consistent breaking of trust. Suppose if they had not resolved their issues and carried it forward to even few more days after returning home, there would have been involvement of family and friends into their dispute and soon their opinions and involvements would have caused more increase in their separation and damage to their marital life.
Lastly, about the husband beating his wife. Yes, it is wrong to do so, but the husband was emotionally disturbed for a prolonged period. He had to emotionally burst out verbally or physically. He was waiting for the opportunity and when walking back into the villa, she further made a statement that she will miss them. It was hard for him to digest the fact that she was diverted so much so soon. Also, the fact that that she had done it... willingly as it appeared. It was his way of expressing his anger and frustration over her at that point. He also felt sorry for it later. However, his actions were not focused on hurting her or killing her. It was not to express manliness where a man just beats to exercise control over another person. He only poured out his emotions. There are men and women who cannot easily accept rejection or ill-mannered behavior from someone they love and live with. They definitely bring out their emotions in some form, at least transiently. A woman is more prone to use her tongue to bring out her emotions while a man is more prone to use his hands to bring out emotions. After loving and being married and living with someone for a prolonged time, it absolutely cannot just be, "Oh! You like someone else. Fine. Let's divorce. Bye." At the same time, it must be noted that the wife was not just a silent victim here. Not only was she resisting and equally fighting back, but she also revealed things such a way that there was provocation to the point that he should feel hurt and get angry. She was trying to silently project it as "you said yesterday leave me alone, so this is what you get," which again is not a right attitude. As a third person, by not actually experiencing it, it is very easy to comment or remark on somebody's action as right or wrong retrospectively, and each of you may say the husband should have done this or done that instead. However, the person involved in such situation will only be able to act spontaneously at that moment based on the impact he/she experiences.
In the story, there is no event to suggest that the husband was irresponsible or not loving or caring towards his wife. Their life was normal before they came to Goa. He probably did everything a husband would do to his wife. The story also has his sexual encounters with his wife. If the wife had shown resistance and if he had seen her being forced, then there was a reason for him to pick up fight against Mark/Robert. However, in the story, the husband found the wife willingly participating in sex with them. Thus, it is necessary that he raise the issue with his wife and sort his own relationship with her more importantly. It is always not necessary that when a wife has an affair, it is because her husband is useless or impotent. The wife could be having different fantasies, different sexual appetite, may have some mental illness, or even may be carried away at some point in time of life without much thinking in such moments like it happened in the story. Of course, the husband witnessed the acts and did not stop or do anything at that moment. He probably loved her so much that it made him indecisive being shocked with her sudden change. It also did not happen over several days that he could decide on his action, but just the 2 days when he found her involved in sexual activity with Mark and Robert. He did not stop Mark/Robert initially but thought it was their culture and just remained social with them. Nevertheless, the husband did not exclude these factors and held himself equally responsibile for whatever happened. He also realized his mistakes and learned from it.
Shazia showed repentence to the husband's advantage (In reality, however, women will never accept their faults, at least not so easily and not so soon). Although she cheated on the husband, she was manipulated and carried away. She also ended up enjoying it since the experience was new and breathtaking for her. The events also gave her an opportunity to explore her limits of sexuality. Her sexual exploration was witnessed by the husband. This resulted in breaking down of the barriers between them and engaging themselves in wilder sex thereafter, bringing them much more closer to a more physically satisfying relationship. With sex still being a taboo in a socieity like ours, many husbands and wives do not open up their sexualities fully with each other even after several years of marriage. They keep it to themselves thinking what the husband may think or what the wife may think. When they find an external person offering something that can fulfill their fantasy and likeness, they get easily drifted at that time. They are more comfortable and free to reveal their inner self to a boyfriend/girlfriend than with their spouse, especially in arranged marriages.
Being in a place far from home and visiting a place like Goa, the couple intended to enjoy without any restrictions. They wanted to be free for some time away from family and they lost their do's and don'ts. Mark and Robert had this for their advantage, but the couple's love for each other brought them to realization when they actually became alone. They rectified themselves apologizing to each other. Marriage or divorce are neither just words nor simple events in life. These are life-changing events and should not be emotionally driven decisions. One must NOT decide to marry based on just one single event of love or being impressed by someone. One also must not choose to divorce based on one single event of hatred or dissatisfaction. There is more in the relationship of husband and wife besides sex. It must be tried to avoid divorce as much as possible weighing the pros and cons of it. If there is maturity, realization, and cooperation from both sides, nothing can be better than applying corrective measures and surviving the marriage. Divorce still is an option to choose, but it has to be the last resort and when the individual (husband or wife) is suffering in a toxic relationship of harassment, abuse, and consistent breaking of trust. Suppose if they had not resolved their issues and carried it forward to even few more days after returning home, there would have been involvement of family and friends into their dispute and soon their opinions and involvements would have caused more increase in their separation and damage to their marital life.
Lastly, about the husband beating his wife. Yes, it is wrong to do so, but the husband was emotionally disturbed for a prolonged period. He had to emotionally burst out verbally or physically. He was waiting for the opportunity and when walking back into the villa, she further made a statement that she will miss them. It was hard for him to digest the fact that she was diverted so much so soon. Also, the fact that that she had done it... willingly as it appeared. It was his way of expressing his anger and frustration over her at that point. He also felt sorry for it later. However, his actions were not focused on hurting her or killing her. It was not to express manliness where a man just beats to exercise control over another person. He only poured out his emotions. There are men and women who cannot easily accept rejection or ill-mannered behavior from someone they love and live with. They definitely bring out their emotions in some form, at least transiently. A woman is more prone to use her tongue to bring out her emotions while a man is more prone to use his hands to bring out emotions. After loving and being married and living with someone for a prolonged time, it absolutely cannot just be, "Oh! You like someone else. Fine. Let's divorce. Bye." At the same time, it must be noted that the wife was not just a silent victim here. Not only was she resisting and equally fighting back, but she also revealed things such a way that there was provocation to the point that he should feel hurt and get angry. She was trying to silently project it as "you said yesterday leave me alone, so this is what you get," which again is not a right attitude. As a third person, by not actually experiencing it, it is very easy to comment or remark on somebody's action as right or wrong retrospectively, and each of you may say the husband should have done this or done that instead. However, the person involved in such situation will only be able to act spontaneously at that moment based on the impact he/she experiences.
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All photos, GIFs, and videos are either own or derived from the internet. Credit goes to the actual owners. Most photos are from Anamika in Bingemee. Credit goes to Anamika for her photos. PM for complaint/removal of any posted content.
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