29-12-2021, 02:46 PM
(This post was last modified: 29-12-2021, 03:56 PM by Ibrahim339. Edited 2 times in total. Edited 2 times in total.)
Sharing with you my opinion and also my recommendation to you:
You are not wrong, and your wife is not wrong either. You are just failing to see the worth of what you have and misjudging your own relationship and your choice in life.
Yes! Life is all about choices, but our future is always hidden and we can only make choice with a hope of a better future by a right choice. You cannot always guarantee that your choice will yield a good result. For example, you fail to see that marrying a simple middle or lower middle class woman can also give rise to problems of its own kind. You are not exposed to their greed. You just assume that grass is greener on the other side.
Life is a path and you just walk through it, face the challenges, solve the problems, and move on. Every individual is made different and thinks himself/herself as right based on his/her upbringing and likenesses in life. You cannot conclude that someone (wife or anyone) is wrong simply because they do not fulfill your needs or reach up to your expectations. You have to appreciate other's views/judgements/desires in life and marriage also.
A woman is not born only to be fucked. She is not married only for sex. She is also a support and company in a man's life. Yes, sex is important too, but there are many other factors within a relationship. A woman's sexuality is very delicate. If she loves and desires a man, she will crave for him so much that she will give up the whole world. If she dislikes a man for any reason, then even if that is her husband, she will not be able to love him. As a husband, you also need to give her reasons to love you. You cannot take her for granted that she is your wife and she has to do xyz for you. She is not a robot. Appreciate her for what she is doing to your family by working outside and contributing to growth of your family and supporting you. Start loving her and make her feel that you value her. She will love you endlessly.
Man or a woman, when in work field, both tend to become competitive. A wife cannot be termed as irresponsible just because she is focused to her career and growth. She is also doing it for building your family. There are other difficulties to face when you are with a woman who does not work and is a housewife. You may have observed or your friends may have told you only the good things which they experienced by marrying such a woman, but that is just one side of it. If you dig into their life more, you will definitely see some voids and some misunderstandings and difficulties. I have a friend who keeps cribbing that his wife is dumb and is not working lady, because of which he has to struggle working in life to meet the financial needs. You may think your earning today is enough for the family, but her contribution makes a difference, especially in difficult moments like how many of them lost jobs in the pandemic. Working or not working alone does not decide on a wife as good or bad.
Being a working woman, she finds it necessary to present herself good at work. For that reason, she has to spend some of her earning on beauty parlors, clothing, shopping of her interest, or similar. It is natural for a woman to desire to look beautiful. You want just her pussy to look beautiful, but she wants everything else on her also to be beautiful. You say she is buying expensive lingerie. Enjoy seeing your wife wear it! Why are you seeing the price tag on it? There is one member who said, "our money." That's right madam, but make sure your income is also included in that "our money" and make sure that expenses are also "our expenses." You have to plan your expenses based on priorities. Lavish and materialistic stuff last in priority. Food and medical expenses, children's expenses, etc. are top priority. You said that 95% of maids like to be like sex goddesses and 95% of corporate women are cold as ice. That's because a maid only has sex to offer you, but a corporate women has her education certificates, her wisdom, her finance, and lot more to offer you and to also share with you, of which you take credit for in society when you go out together as husband and wife.
Being a husband does not mean you have to fulfill all the needs of your wife. A wife cannot demand that too. Being a wife does not mean that she has to live fulfilling all your needs on bed. A husband cannot demand that too. If you realize that you are not supposed to have any expectations in marriage and if you love open-heartedly without carrying any expectation, then you can also make your wife soon realize your love and she will be yours forever. Even if she works with most handsome and rich boss with whom she flirts with for professional gains (like you assume), her heart will always be beating for you.
You really need to value what you have. Living a life of loneliness, I can only imagine how fortunate you are. No matter what, I am sure when your wife finds you in true need, she will leave everything and see that you are made secure and comfortable. By default, husband and wife love and care for each other, but their speech and actions messes it all and hatred begins.
So, think, how fortunate you are that way. Find solutions for your marital problems, seek advice from a counselor if required, move on and don't conclude this way. Marriage is not a fulfillment of everything. In reality, no one is perfect and no marriage is perfect. Stop dreaming a life like you see in movies and stop comparing yourself with it.
Finally! It is all in your thinking. If you compare yourself to others, your own past, or even if you compare yourself to anything that you think to be ideal in life, you will always remain dissatisfied. You miss your ex because it is your thinking that she is still the same. Time has passed. She may not be the same today as you think she was. If you may have married her and who knows, you might be posting here a topic saying, never marry a village girl, you can expect anything from them, they are dirty, they have to be taught everything, they don't look sexy, and blah blah blah blah blah!!! Your wife is still your best choice. When you realize that, she may not be there and you will miss her to the core, so better love her now!!
If pussy is all that matters in a marriage, then your maid is your best choice!! 
There are bad women out there, but the criteria you set is incorrect.
PS: All the above applies only if your post was a serious one and not a fantasy!
You are not wrong, and your wife is not wrong either. You are just failing to see the worth of what you have and misjudging your own relationship and your choice in life.
Yes! Life is all about choices, but our future is always hidden and we can only make choice with a hope of a better future by a right choice. You cannot always guarantee that your choice will yield a good result. For example, you fail to see that marrying a simple middle or lower middle class woman can also give rise to problems of its own kind. You are not exposed to their greed. You just assume that grass is greener on the other side.
Life is a path and you just walk through it, face the challenges, solve the problems, and move on. Every individual is made different and thinks himself/herself as right based on his/her upbringing and likenesses in life. You cannot conclude that someone (wife or anyone) is wrong simply because they do not fulfill your needs or reach up to your expectations. You have to appreciate other's views/judgements/desires in life and marriage also.
A woman is not born only to be fucked. She is not married only for sex. She is also a support and company in a man's life. Yes, sex is important too, but there are many other factors within a relationship. A woman's sexuality is very delicate. If she loves and desires a man, she will crave for him so much that she will give up the whole world. If she dislikes a man for any reason, then even if that is her husband, she will not be able to love him. As a husband, you also need to give her reasons to love you. You cannot take her for granted that she is your wife and she has to do xyz for you. She is not a robot. Appreciate her for what she is doing to your family by working outside and contributing to growth of your family and supporting you. Start loving her and make her feel that you value her. She will love you endlessly.
Man or a woman, when in work field, both tend to become competitive. A wife cannot be termed as irresponsible just because she is focused to her career and growth. She is also doing it for building your family. There are other difficulties to face when you are with a woman who does not work and is a housewife. You may have observed or your friends may have told you only the good things which they experienced by marrying such a woman, but that is just one side of it. If you dig into their life more, you will definitely see some voids and some misunderstandings and difficulties. I have a friend who keeps cribbing that his wife is dumb and is not working lady, because of which he has to struggle working in life to meet the financial needs. You may think your earning today is enough for the family, but her contribution makes a difference, especially in difficult moments like how many of them lost jobs in the pandemic. Working or not working alone does not decide on a wife as good or bad.
Being a working woman, she finds it necessary to present herself good at work. For that reason, she has to spend some of her earning on beauty parlors, clothing, shopping of her interest, or similar. It is natural for a woman to desire to look beautiful. You want just her pussy to look beautiful, but she wants everything else on her also to be beautiful. You say she is buying expensive lingerie. Enjoy seeing your wife wear it! Why are you seeing the price tag on it? There is one member who said, "our money." That's right madam, but make sure your income is also included in that "our money" and make sure that expenses are also "our expenses." You have to plan your expenses based on priorities. Lavish and materialistic stuff last in priority. Food and medical expenses, children's expenses, etc. are top priority. You said that 95% of maids like to be like sex goddesses and 95% of corporate women are cold as ice. That's because a maid only has sex to offer you, but a corporate women has her education certificates, her wisdom, her finance, and lot more to offer you and to also share with you, of which you take credit for in society when you go out together as husband and wife.
Being a husband does not mean you have to fulfill all the needs of your wife. A wife cannot demand that too. Being a wife does not mean that she has to live fulfilling all your needs on bed. A husband cannot demand that too. If you realize that you are not supposed to have any expectations in marriage and if you love open-heartedly without carrying any expectation, then you can also make your wife soon realize your love and she will be yours forever. Even if she works with most handsome and rich boss with whom she flirts with for professional gains (like you assume), her heart will always be beating for you.
You really need to value what you have. Living a life of loneliness, I can only imagine how fortunate you are. No matter what, I am sure when your wife finds you in true need, she will leave everything and see that you are made secure and comfortable. By default, husband and wife love and care for each other, but their speech and actions messes it all and hatred begins.
So, think, how fortunate you are that way. Find solutions for your marital problems, seek advice from a counselor if required, move on and don't conclude this way. Marriage is not a fulfillment of everything. In reality, no one is perfect and no marriage is perfect. Stop dreaming a life like you see in movies and stop comparing yourself with it.
Finally! It is all in your thinking. If you compare yourself to others, your own past, or even if you compare yourself to anything that you think to be ideal in life, you will always remain dissatisfied. You miss your ex because it is your thinking that she is still the same. Time has passed. She may not be the same today as you think she was. If you may have married her and who knows, you might be posting here a topic saying, never marry a village girl, you can expect anything from them, they are dirty, they have to be taught everything, they don't look sexy, and blah blah blah blah blah!!! Your wife is still your best choice. When you realize that, she may not be there and you will miss her to the core, so better love her now!!
If pussy is all that matters in a marriage, then your maid is your best choice!! There are bad women out there, but the criteria you set is incorrect.
PS: All the above applies only if your post was a serious one and not a fantasy!
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