Be candid: Survey - does your wife have or had an affair?

[ashipremkumar]

Friends, this is a candid Survey about your partner's sexual affairs. 
Do you know your wife had or is having an affair: yes/no/can't say
If yes, how many: 4 before marriage, 5 after
With whom: she lost her virginity to her cousin, n had sex with her 3 bfs. after mrg her collegues.
How you find it: caught her in bed with her collegue, i had thought of surprising her by coming early from my mumbai trip. but i was shocked to see her cloths all over in our living n then she sleeping nude with a man in our bedroom.
Your initial reaction: i was shocked... but knew she did had affairs... i too had few
Any other details you want to share: we are now open about it