Be candid: Survey - does your wife have or had an affair?

[Usethewife]

Friends, this is a candid Survey about your partner's sexual affairs. 
Do you know your wife had or is having an affair: yes/no/can't say
If yes, how many:
With whom:
How you find it:
Your initial reaction:
Any other details you want to share:

Very early in our marriage, we had a severe money shortage problem. I was working, but the pay at the time was terrible.

She was also working, but her company started to go through lay offs. She began to confide to her boss how much she needed the job. He made an offer to her if she performed some"favors" for him, he could probably make her job security safe. She complied. It lasted two months.


She told me about it years after. While it is erotic to think about years later, initially hearing that your wife had sex for money like a whore is... Disturbing. It took time for me to soak it in