06-06-2020, 08:33 PM
One fine evening as usual during our little conversation between Manoj and me. I noticed that Manoj is bit disappointed and unhappy. I casually asked what is the matter and he said: “Sister, What Ramya doing is not fair”. I got shocked and asked “what she did? “ Manoj said, “Sister, biggest punishment for one is to ask him to be blindfolded and enjoy seeing the beautiful art. How come it is possible? This is too bad to keep my eyes closed during our love session”
I laughed, “Hey what is there in seeing her, you are enjoying with her up to great extent right? You said that she is making your every cell of your body to enjoy. You said she completely allows you to do anything that you want to do with her, then how does it matter if you see or don’t see her face.”
Manoj seriously interrupted and said, “Sister, most people think and falsely believe sex is an activity of body satisfaction, but it is not the case. It is the act of showing extreme love on someone. It is the act of conveying ‘I love you to the core’ When words cannot express it, it progresses to kiss. When kiss cannot completely express it, it further progresses to body contact and it further extends to the stage where the contact goes further deep inside the body. In this process, the body is not only getting happy, mind will also get happy.
So for one to convey the love to other, seeing the other person is very important. My body is happy with whatever happening between me and Ramya, but my mind is not happy. My mind will be completely happy if I can see her eye to eye and fully express my love to her through my eyes. I want to see how happy is she with the pleasure I am giving to her. I want to become happy by seeing the way she is feeling happy. Now the act between us is like a mechanical one.”
He stopped and gave a pause.
I was very stunned by his very poetic and romantic definition of love and sex. I never thought he is of such maturity explaining the core principles of love life up to this detail. I was terribly touched by the way he expressed it and asked for it. I felt almost that I want to get rid of this eye mask condition, but I felt how I would face him eye to eye as his sister without guilty. How can I reach wildly with such a sexual high desire face to face? I tried to tell my concern to him and see what he is going to say.
I said, “Manoj, I got your point. Please think in Ramya’s position. She is my friend. In a way, she should be treating you like her brother, but here her relationship with you is extremely sexual, how can her moral and guilt feel will allow her to face you. She will be dying in guilt if she looks at your eye.”
I laughed, “Hey what is there in seeing her, you are enjoying with her up to great extent right? You said that she is making your every cell of your body to enjoy. You said she completely allows you to do anything that you want to do with her, then how does it matter if you see or don’t see her face.”
Manoj seriously interrupted and said, “Sister, most people think and falsely believe sex is an activity of body satisfaction, but it is not the case. It is the act of showing extreme love on someone. It is the act of conveying ‘I love you to the core’ When words cannot express it, it progresses to kiss. When kiss cannot completely express it, it further progresses to body contact and it further extends to the stage where the contact goes further deep inside the body. In this process, the body is not only getting happy, mind will also get happy.
So for one to convey the love to other, seeing the other person is very important. My body is happy with whatever happening between me and Ramya, but my mind is not happy. My mind will be completely happy if I can see her eye to eye and fully express my love to her through my eyes. I want to see how happy is she with the pleasure I am giving to her. I want to become happy by seeing the way she is feeling happy. Now the act between us is like a mechanical one.”
He stopped and gave a pause.
I was very stunned by his very poetic and romantic definition of love and sex. I never thought he is of such maturity explaining the core principles of love life up to this detail. I was terribly touched by the way he expressed it and asked for it. I felt almost that I want to get rid of this eye mask condition, but I felt how I would face him eye to eye as his sister without guilty. How can I reach wildly with such a sexual high desire face to face? I tried to tell my concern to him and see what he is going to say.
I said, “Manoj, I got your point. Please think in Ramya’s position. She is my friend. In a way, she should be treating you like her brother, but here her relationship with you is extremely sexual, how can her moral and guilt feel will allow her to face you. She will be dying in guilt if she looks at your eye.”
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