What fantasy do Married men have?

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The fantasies of men of india would definitely differ from that of Europeans or Americans.
In india, any subject or discussion on sex is a taboo. people are hidebound, only men discuss about sexual experiences and fantasies with friends but very few women discuss about them even with friends. The lack of sex education or ignorance of sexual practices also lead to lot of complications among Indians in the form of unsafe sex, unhygienic sex and result in various types of Sexually transmitted diseases.
For Europeans and Americans sex is a natural urge- like eating and sleeping; where as Indians feel it’s an obligation. Most of the Indian wives feel that being a lawfully wedded wife, it is their bounden duty to satisfy the carnal desires of their husbands but they never try to comprehend that it is so natural like any other bodily urge and could enjoy it thoroughly.
First and foremost sexual fantasy of any men is unbriddled love making, they want their partner to be aggressive in bed, but unfortunately, most women are passive during love making and they never act like porn stars of a porn movie( again a fantasy of men)
The first two or three years of marriage with out any encumbrance it would be great. Once we have kids, our responsibilities multi-fold, naturally the craving or libido in women would slow down. Moreover, the responsibility of women in Indian society after becoming grand parent would increase immensely and she does not evince any interest in sex and she feels that she has already crossed the age of sex. They could never realise that sex is a very good exercise, burn calories, release oxytocin and endomorphin(the pain alleviating hormones) and keep us in good health in the old age.
In American society, the real interest and enthusiasm starts once the children are away and settled somewhere. The older couples start touring places, engage in physical intimacy more often than earlier.
Fantasy is nothing but what we do not have and try to possess it by imagination.
Indians are more of colour or complexion conscious people, the Indian men fantasize more about fairer dames, when they have thin wives- fantasize about buxom women, when they have shorter wives- fantasize about taller ladies.
Fantasy is the birth right of human beings irrespective of gender, nobody can stop us from fantasising.

Men in love: sexual fantasies of men by Nancy Friday.