Right age for loosing virginity and marriage

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Hi xossipians,
             Our society is changing every day. 50 years ago, the right age for marriage was about 15-20. now its almost 25-30. Both men and women used to wait for their marriage to loose virginity. Once again that's not the case anymore. Personally I am of the opinion that nature is the best judge for all things good or bad. When you reach puberty, its nature's way of telling that you are ready for sex. when you fall in love, once again its nature telling you to start a family and have kids. But then everyone is entitled to their opinion and I would certainly love to hear yours on the same. So go ahead. Put on your thinking caps and start typing. Thanks in advance...

During the period of invasions of our vast land, some of which had been completely lost and became ---c nations and the reduced part is now being called India, people used to marry off their kids at tender age due to abductions and bang of young woman and girls.  There are many instances where married woman were also abducted, bangd and pushed into harem of the then rulers.  In the british era too marrying off  at early age was continued due to that fear only.  Partition of British India into India and Pakistan had witnessed mass brutal killings, abductions and bang of many women.   

Now, I would say things have changed a lot for the new generation.   If we take reproductive age into consideration 20 should be the minimum age to get married to get good offspring That's my opinion based on what I had seen in many people lives.  By 30's people (not everyone) will start having problems of some sort related to sexual organs and reproduction.   Whether to have sex before marriage or after marriage is purely a personal choice and need.  Lucky is the person who gets to deflower his wife on the first night.  Its the ultimate gift that a wife can give to her husband.  Same goes for the man.  So its better for both man and woman to wait for sex until they married.  If one tastes sex before there won't be much thrill in the marriage except having sex with one more person.   Onset of puberty doesn't mean that one's body is completely ready for sex as the sexual organs need to be fully developed for both the sexes.   Falling in love has nothing to do with starting a family and having kids.   Of course nature has it own role in love and sex and no body can deny that.   Getting married in 20's is the best choice as there will be ample time to enjoy ones life.  30's somewhat better and in 40s its bad as there will be less time to enjoy and manage life.  So its better if one gets settled in life and gets married by 25-28.  this is purely my opinion and people can have a different opinion