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My Wife's Dark Past_
#1
Hi guys,

This is going to be long real life story with many emotions, love, heartbreak, cheating. I just wanted to share here.

Almost 1 year back i married to my childhood sweetheart. I am 30 Yr & she is 24 yrs old. She was in her college when we started liking each other...slowly turned into a relationship. I work with a MNC with a transferable job. she was too young for me when we started loving each other. So our parents did not agree to this. After a long struggle ,fights with families, all agreed but with a condition. She should complete study & after 2 years - marriage. We both reluctantly agreed.

She is Rubika, with a child like face, she is introvert, does not talk much, not into any friends group in her college. Slowly i encouraged her to have friends, try to be lill extrovert, enjoy life a bit. She loved me like anything. I too. She completed her college & got a job at Mumbai in a renowned s/w company. But due to her personality, her parents were totally against job. Their wish was to get her married to me asap.

But i didn't like to end her career just like that. I encouraged her family to let her do job & anyway after 2yrs we will get married. If she wants , can continue or leave dat time. Finally all agreed. But my reason for sending her to job is different. As she never stayed outside, very shy & introvert.  I wanted her to open up little & stay at hostel/PG, enjoy bachelor life, have lill fun , feel independent. And finally joined at Mumbai. She stayed at a apartment with her new friends. Our relationship got stronger. She started enjoying her life. i was happy.

Months gone. we both progressed from innocent texting to sexting & intimate talks. She changed drastically. but we had bonding. But i was not able to give her time, talk, spend time with her. One fine sunday , we both lost virginity. We were so excited & happy about starting our sexual life. Slowly time passed. She grown up in front of my eyes. She started enjoying life, went on tours with friends, she forgot about marriage & didnot wanted to marry so early. But i wanted now coz of little insecurity.

Honestly i was happy as she was changing in a good way. I even encouraged her to be with groups, have friends with boys & girls. As i was on a transferable job & had busy work loads, could not give her enough time. She  too got busy. Our relation became a long distance relation.

But finally we both married as it was hampering our life. She reluctantly agreed. My little beautiful wife came to my house. Romance was in air, fucked like rabbits , went honeymoon to Maldives. Our life was wonderful....until a day. :O

That day i felt like a big mountain fell on me. I could not believe. My girl... my wife had a dark past
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#2
Yes my baby had a dark past... !!! Haan ...yes. My wife had a affair before marriage.

Thousand Qs run in my mind. What & How happened. We had a long 4yrs relationship. How can she do this to me. I was heartbroken.
Even she didnt inform when she got into a wrong way & deviated from our relation. i was too angry, shouted her like anything, she was also sorry about cheating on me. One evening i just checking group messages. Found a SMS from a guy named Aman. She clarified he is her friend at ofc. But out of curosity just checked other social sites. To my dis-believe , there are tons of messages. But more worse is she continued to chat after marriage also... till i found out. i was completely broken & wanted to talk with her & parents. I cannt accept this. She was in fear , asked to forgive, cried. She confessed everything.

We were in little rough patch in our relation, then this guy Aman came into her life.They became friends... but slowly they chatted..sexted. & fell in love. Rubi promised she loved me always...but felt good with Aman around. They went on movies, dinner, roamed around. She promised they didnt fuck. But i doubt that. Those texts, photos not being able to delete in my head. How she ws happy with him. But She wanted to live with me, asked to forgive her. But i was heartbroken. . It affected a lot.

Now the point , shd i come out of this & rebuild our relationship or let her go from me. I cd not come to terms that she was texting after marriage also.
or forgive. It was me who encouraged her to go outside for job & friends, have fun....but she crossed limit.

Now we are living together. But the excitement & vibe got diluted. But i got lesson that even if u r in a long relationship, u need to nurture it or it might fell. Women are very fragile & emotional. Pay attention. Now we are rebuilding, But i lost my wife to someone else.


Sometimes also i feel for her. Staying in her place, i can imagine , as a woman she needs care, in fact deserve care. But i cd not give. Then that guy came into her life, She got into him, felt important. She was happy. The fantasy feelings inside telling me its fine, i shd be proud of her, Still she came back & promising a new life.

A 2 months later , We discussed everything. Just wanted both of us to accept her past as it is. Yes She did a mistake, had a boyfriend. Now he is past. I asked her to dont shy away or lets not keep this thing a secret. Aceept & can tell loud - u had a boyfriend till it becomes a joke between us. This way we should move forward.

Now All  right between us . But she never told me her sexual relationship with him except a naughty smile.
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#3
posts r too long. cut it down to bare facts
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#4
Hey man. Please pm me ur hangout or telegram id I’m also married and similar things to share. Let’s chat on personal basis.
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